I'm a lesbian, and my girlfriend is very aggressive when it comes to sex. She would always come on top and hold my hands down so that I couldn't move. I usually try to overturn her but then we end up having a fight in bed....... How can I be more aggressive?
2007-08-15 04:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Lily Y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm ....... sorry ... I kinda zoned out there after reading the question. It's like I've seen the video before! Just HAVE FUN! ENJOY!
2007-08-15 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I say just try talking to her about it,explain to her that you enjoy her being the aggressor but that you would like to be the agressor every now and then.
Some women get settled with a certain role in the bedroom and dont feel comfortable changing.
2007-08-15 11:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by tx_rainbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be the first to take charge. Before she gets a chance to pin you, pin her. If she flips you over and forces you down, maybe you two should have a talk about it. Apparently she wants to be more dominant, and likes you to submit. Or maybe she thinks you like it. So, talk about it if it's bothering you. If you don't you'll be all pissed and she won't know why. Then you'll really have a fight.
2007-08-15 08:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why could you decide directly to be aggressive together with her? She is the Domme and you're Her subbie. only loosen up and luxuriate in Her Dominance. you will discover that place very pleasing - i do with the appealing Domme Who i serve willingly!
2016-11-12 09:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by blaylock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aggressive woman do not occupy my bed. It is a real turn-off for me personally.
It is good there are all types out there - something for everyone.
:)
2007-08-15 05:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being totally submissive, and enjoy the thrill. On the other hand, wrestling can be enjoyable as well.
The important things are to enjoy what you do, and to try various things.
Have fun.
2007-08-15 04:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have to make the first move. She obviously wants you to fight back, so she might even like this. Try pinning her first. :)
2007-08-15 04:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
be strong and take control for the begining that way she'll know that you can be more agresive then waht she is
other option is that if you don't like beeing agresive and stuff talk to her and tell her that you don't like that and she should understand
2007-08-15 04:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sm1l3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderful question! Enjoy it baby, Enjoy.
2007-08-18 05:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jackson D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jennifer
2007-08-15 16:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋