My mom treats me like ****, even though I do whatever she asks. A few days ago I didn't want to go to the store with her so that I could finish my summer homework and she blew a gasket, she said that if I didn't go to the store with her she'd stop feeding me. I had finally had enough of her yelling (because she's been doing that for a few days prior) so I said "The moment you stop feeding me is the moment I call Social Services". She then told me to pack my stuff and get out (mind you I'm only 14). I did pack my stuff then she told me I couldn't take it, because I was trying to steal her stuff. She then thought that I would call the cops on her so she told me to go do the dishes, I did and she started yelling again. She told me that legally all she has to do is give me water and a tent and "legally" she isn't doing anything wrong. I told her that I wasn't going to be treated like a slave and she said that my only other option was foster care. Is there anything I can do?
2007-08-15 03:36:36 · 8 answers · asked by Katie-bo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she is really treating you like this, it would be best to talk to a teacher that you trust or talk to an authority figure. It sounds to me like she has a chemical imbalance or possibly a disorder, but only a certified psychologist could verify that. You really need to talk to someone who can help you out- what your mom is doing isn't right.
2007-08-15 03:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by revolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweety, I feel for you. Where is your Dad? Can you live with him or another relative? Do you have a relative you can talk to? If not, perhaps your guidance counslor. You need to talk to someone. Unfortunately, your mom is probably right to some extent. Although what she is doing is verbal/psychological abuse, that is HARD to prove and the authorities probably wouldn't do anything. Does she have any problems with substance abuse? You could report her if she does. If you don't have any avenues of getting out of that situation, my advise is to try to appease her as much as possible until you turn 18. Try to avoid her and do what she says as much as possible. Until then save every dime you can get your hands on and STUDY, STUDY (maybe you can get a scholarship). When you turn 18 (or 17 in some states, find out) tell her you are moving out if things don't change and be able to back it up. Have a trusted adult help you with finding an apartment, etc. Your mom will regret what she is doing. Also, a little prayer can help too.
2007-08-15 03:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by hooahwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,obey your mother,there are far worst parents out there in the world,ones that beat there kids,some even kill there kids,going to the store with your mom should not be a big issue,when you turn 18 you can do what you want,but for now you live with your mother,respect your mother,and yes your mother should respect you,if you think foster care is a walk in the park,you are so wrong
2007-08-19 02:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my sympathy. You need to tell someone you trust like a teacher or principal that your mother is behaving like this. It sounds as if she is mentally ill and may need to see a dr. Sometimes medication can help a situation like this and if she can't afford it she can get some assistance to help her get it. PLEASE do not keep this to yourself. You HAVE to tell someone this is going on. Make sure to tell them that she told you to get out and that all she has to do is give you water and a tent, because that is not all she has to do. Not to mention that you deserve more. Good Luck, Honey. Let us know how this turns out.
2007-08-15 04:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by momof2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is mentally ill--I suspect bi-polar disorder---and the disease is progressing at a geometric rate of degeneration; she needs professional medical AND psychairatriac care ASAP.
If you can get her her outbursts on video---I'd do it and keep that evidence handy. Make copies for police, social services, the doctors involved w/ her care.....and one copy for yourself.
If you have a trusted and responsible relative, I'd bolt run over and ask to stay w/ them. Heart-breaking options---but quite necesary ones. I wish you well......take care.
2007-08-15 03:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is insane and viciously controlling.
You have to guard yourself and if necessary, get a higher authority involved (Social Services).
Go to a relative and ask to live with them, you are living a tortuous hell!
2007-08-15 13:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is her issue and why is she taken it out on you? where is your dad? how about your grand parents? try to talk to them for help. if not, call the social services. It might be a little better than what you're in now.
2007-08-15 03:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's far away from normal threating. Your life is kinda crazy. I can imagine it. My advice would be to stay away from her and wait the time when you can move away from there to your own apartment(even if there's a lot of time).
2007-08-15 03:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nightroller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋