Unprotected sex?

Question

I and my Girl Friend Had unprotected sex but i pulled out my penis Before i ejaculate..But now we are getting tensed dat if she is pregnant...Is she pregnant.?.and what if shes pregnant..what can we do except abortion..? Plzz gimme all your answers for wat else can i do,...!!

Answer 1

Unprotected sex is unprotected sex.

there is no such thing as pulling out as willies leak sperm as soon as stiff. its called precum and meant to moisureise your helmet .

In other words... think what you did was pain millions or sperm in her vagina... you dod not throw the whole pot of billions.


im curious why di you not ask here about this before you did it?

Most likly she is pregnant... get her to take a test.

Note there will be many going on about murdering babies... thsats tripe... its not a baby inside you and people like that dont care about the gril who they see as dirt or you, or in the fututre the child which they would call a bastard and spit in its face.


Abortion is best.

Adoption.

think if there were really lots of people looking for babies why so many kids getting raped in childrens homes?

Likewise it would wreck your life and you end up on a horrible estate full of muggers, gangs and crack dealers and junkies so woul get battered , mugged then kid would join a gang.

Really you should never have had unprotected se but now you have abortion is the most sensible

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ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...

VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
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TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...


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A MORNING AFTER PILL ie plan b

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25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficets that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant

After 2 days its only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)

You may be able to get a IUD coil as well.

IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT ITS FOR EMERGENCIES…

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ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_92.asp

VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_99.asp

TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_61.asp

Answer 2

First, you need to learn how to spell.

Second, you need sex education. Don't do the deed if you don't know enough about it! Which clearly you don't, otherwise you'd know about PRE-***. Which is the precise reason why the pull out method is possibly the worst form of contraception known to mankind, other than not using any at all!
Pre-*** (or pre-ejaculate) is where semen is released PRIOR to full ejaculation. This semen contains SPERM. Sperm fertilises the egg which produces a FOETUS (a potential baby).

Third, you need to be aware of Sexually Transmitted Infections (or STI's) which can cause serious long term implications to both yourself and your partner, which is why most people wear CONDOMS, unless of course you are 100% certain that neither yourself, nor your partner has an STI.

I would seriously urge you and your partner to do the following:

1) Go to Boots/Superdrug and buy a pregnancy testing kit, or make an appointment to see her GP asap to find out if she is/isn't pregnant. Or you could go to a family planning clinic.
If she is pregnant, then you need to speak to her GP to discuss your options.

2) Both of you should make an appointment at your local GUM (genito-urinary medicine) clinic to be tested for STI's.

3) Get some decent sex education. Then you might want to consider getting some decent contraception. Such as your girlfriend going on the pill or you using condoms.

For goodness sake don't have sex again until you know what you are doing. I know the above may sound harsh, but having sex isn't a game. Are you and your partner really mature enough to be parents? And do you really want to end up with an STI?

Answer 3

Guess you shouldn't have fallen asleep in health class. Pulling out doesn't help, because there is semen in your pre-ejaculate. So yes, she may well be pregnant.

As far as abortions are concerned, you don't get to make that decision. SHE does. You can advise her, but ultimately it is HER decision. She can choose to have the baby or not, but whatever she does, YOU are responsible for taking care of her and being there for her. If she has the baby, then you are a father, like it or not. You will have to be there for her and her baby, or else pay child support if you choose not to participate. If she chooses to have the abortion, then you should be right by her side when she does it. That is the consequence of being irresponsible and having unprotected sex.

Sorry to be so harsh, but that is the reality of the situation. You made your own bed.

Answer 4

I would suggest that next time you use protection. Just because you pulled out doesn't mean anything. If she is pregnant, do not get an abortion. Even if you think it's a good choice now, later on you'll regret it. If she's pregnant I guess you two should talk it out and decide together what to do. If you aren't ready for parenthood then have the baby and give it up for adoption so it can find a loving home. But before you get ahead of yourself, why don't you find out if she's pregnant first. And from now on, USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Better yet, abstain from having sex until you're married and ready to have a child.

Answer 5

I can understand your delema, i cannot say that i have had unprotected sex on purpose, but we have had the condom break on us.
it is a very scary prospect to have to deal with, you will have to talk to her and see what she would like to do if it dose come to pass. Remember it is ultimately her body and abortion is not something to get done 'Just Because'.
I was lucky enough to have taken the morning after pill, but unlucky because i ended up having a miscarrage three weeks later. Take this as a warning, not everything is relyable!
If she is not pregnant you should talk to her about going on the pill, it is a preventitive measure, not a sure thing. Wear a condom! Keep an emergancy morning after pill in your room just for emergancie like this. It is better to be safe than be a daddy.
Or you could just masterbate untill you get married? na didnt think so. LOl

Any hoo, get a test and in two weeks get her to take it. It would be safer if you went to the doctors and had a blood test, they are more accurate than an at home kit, because they can check her hormone levels. (Pregnant women have a very high level of hormones in their blood)

But i hope everything works out for you and it just turns out to be a scare. One that teaches you a lesson.

Answer 6

Good: You've both been talking. You've both agreed on what happens if contraception fails. Questions: Have you both been tested and given a clean bill of health? Does she strictly observe her contraceptive dosage regimen and take it at the same time each day? Are you both willing to temporarily go back to condoms for a cycle if she misses a dose? Have you both EXPLICITLY agreed to be monogamous or to use condoms with any other partners? Are you two open and trusting enough to actually discuss any failures in the monogamy agreement without it being a relationship-ending catastrophe? Does she actively dislike children and display a fair amount of desire to not have any? If you answer no to any of these, you're exposing yourself to a risk. I'm serious about this. See the J. Sex Res abstract linked below. Only 52% of couples had both partners explicitly agreeing to be monogamous, and 29% of those young couples who did have breached it.

Answer 7

Well not having protection wasn't the smartest thing to do but if it hasn't been long she can take the morning after pill which will make her get her period and not get period. But you have to take it within 120 hours of having unprotected sex. The sooner the better. But the best thing to do is have her go to the doctor. But also make sure you both don't have any STD's and the pull out method doesn't work at all.

Answer 8

Well if she is pregnant,then you need to grow up and be a responsible person and parent.People should not have unprotected sex for many reasons and you should wait until marriage before having sex!

Answer 9

Sounds like it's already too late...you had unprotected sex and that's all there is to it. Your girlfriend might have a chance that she is pregnant, especially if she isn't on birth control. All you can do is have her take a pregnancy test. I am glad to hear that you aren't considering abortion, because abortion is border. If she is pregnant, then it's time to become responsible and be a father to that baby. Best Wishes!

Answer 10

How old are you? I take it you are pretty young....

First of all do not try to solve the problem with Abortion. The innocent child should not suffer because of your(both of you) mistake.

Sex is a very serious and grown-up thing to do, it's not something to play around with. So if you 2 where grown up enough to be having sex, then you should be grown up enough to accept the responsibilities of your actions.

Consider ADOPTION as an alternative.
And next time think about this situation before you decide to have sex.