Why we are always confused while taking important decision in our life such as education,job,house,wife, child

Question

I have come across many people in my life who used to come for consultation for taking important decision in their life regarding son'/daughter's higher education, buying a plot or house, looking for a life partner,sometimes giving birth children, taking up a new professional jobs,getting a transfer of job or place etc.Why people are so confused to take up a good decision in their life , can you give me the reason

Answer 1

Because these are really important decisions that are going to affect the rest of our lives. My decision to not have a child took abt 10 yrs. It's not like "what do I want for lunch today" which will only affect my lunch...today.

You should take your time when deciding on marriage, school, children, job. Those things are REALLY important.

Answer 2

Yes, why is it such a big deal? Sure, it will affect us for a pretty long time, but that doesn't change the fact that big decisions are inevitable. We can't run away from them.

Sometimes taking our time helps, when one day we feel ready to make that decision. But sometimes, the longer we drag out the process, the more complicated do we make it!

I believe that things work out, no matter how much or how little we stress about it. What must happen, will. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying go sit back and be passive about your life - I'm simply saying CHILL.

Have faith in yourself and your ability to make decisions, regardless of how 'small' or 'big' they are. You might just surprise yourself! :)

Answer 3

They are so afraid that they are going to make the wrong decision and regret it. Major life changing decisions are just that life changing and who wants to walk down the wrong path... The funny part is that no matter how much you think about it and analyze it there is no way to tell what is down the path with out taking that first step...

Answer 4

The reason is simple we are caught up in a world where the scale of success is in the kind of material life we lead.we are also always competing internally and simultaneously with the outer world. Likes and dislikes,love and hatred,success full and unsuccessful,are the scale we gauge anxiety.If we have to be clear in our thought process we will have to do only those things which we are good at and love to do. That is where success full people differentiate themselves from the rest.

Answer 5

It depends on the situation.In my experience I take the most important decisions in my life very easily.Why should I be confused,that's over drama reacting.

Answer 6

cause from decisions we take it depends how our future will be, and we are confused cause if we take the wrong decisions your life will be completely different and not as you dreamed to be,take every decision step by step when you feel ready and think twice before taking it.good luck

Answer 7

There are a lot of options and paths to choose from. Feelings of trepidation and confusion come from not wanting to make the wrong choice and living to regret it or not knowing what we want.

Answer 8

well if u have given the oppertunity from childhood to take up ur decision or we can say that if one is given training of it by letting him/her do very early decision by elders can help to be decisive in mature age if not so then one has to face this problem

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Not 100% steady.