which MATTERS more...to BE SOMEBODY or to HAVE SOMEBODY?

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Good Day/Evening to all!!!!!

Answer 1

What MATTERS is to accept that You already Are SOMEBODY and Truly Believe it and live like you Know it's True!

Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants anybody who believes they are nobody. You have to be the somebody you are for another somebody to see somebody in you to love. If you do not Love Yourself you can not truly Love Others. If you can not Be Yourself you can not truly exist for others. If you do not truly exist you can not truly be loved by others.

SO... you have to BE Somebody before you can ever HAVE Somebody to truly love you.

I’m assuming by “HAVE” you mean a committed love relationship, because it is impossible to truly own/possess another person no matter how much of a somebody you think you are. But if you consider yourself a nobody then you can not be loved for who you really are because you don't let the other person see you for who you are, and then you don't really have a love relationship. You may feel “owned” in a relationship where you’ve acted as a nobody, and that ownership feeling seems to give comfort to many who view themselves as nobodies, but it would be a servant/master relationship with no true bond to hold it together.

Anybody who’s Somebody worth Having deserves to Have Somebody who is truly their Somebody Self that they can know and love for the Somebody they Are.

Peace be with you my brother.

Answer 2

I wish I could think of something special like a few of you do, without sounding like a copyCAT! Good moments to you?

Everybody is somebody. Having somebody can make you feel like an even better somebody! Somebody will love you for the somebody you are. So, you ARE somebody, & it's wonderful to have somebody. What else can I say?

Answer 3

Your brain must ache with all of these amazing questions .. I don't understand how you think of so many! :-)
But to the question ..
Talking on behalf of MYSELF..
I KNOW that without my Parents, my Sister, my Best friend and my very Special person standing beside me - I would be a nobody. They are my sunlight, my water, my soil, my everything!
To be SOMEBODY I had to HAVE SOMEBODY..Now my brain aches! ;-)
No offence to the first answerer: I disagree. Does that mean because these kids that go around in London stabbing each other have friends, they are somebody? Not everybody that has a friend, Brother or Sister is somebody.

Best Wishes

Answer 4

You may think you have somebody, but if your not somebody then things can be very difficult. As in just about any situation you can make do but the best situation is one that you know your self in turn know that your really somebody. The results of being somebody are universal,

Answer 5

If I have somebody, I am somebody already. The person I have, will be the only person I want to be somebody for.

Answer 6

To be somebody must comes first before you could have somebody. You should all first be somebody because the latter will comes next. You should first established your identity and give your most potent weapon to be somebody in the community. These somebodies will gain respect on you if you have first gain respect on yourself.

Answer 7

What matters most, to me is having somebody by my side, so as not to get lonely. Someone to Love, and who Loves you back.

Answer 8

to have somebody who will think me to be somebody
good evening!

Answer 9

Both in certain circumstances.

Having somebody is more important, it's not necessary to try and be somebody when you should just be yourself.

Answer 10

Honestly right now I would say it matters more to me to have somebody. To have someone that loves me unconditionally and will stick by my side. That would be the greatest thing in the world to me.