....them easily if they are willingly or have to be out?
2007-08-15 00:36:24 · 7 answers · asked by sj 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like you feel responsible for them in life.
2007-08-15 00:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel because I am there myself. Wise friends tell me it is because I am more warm hearted than the people concerned are or were and that therefore I feel more deeply - something to be proud of rather than bad about even though it can hurt a lot at times. Others tell me that the people concerned might hide it well but might be hurting just as much too. Look forward and believe that you are better off without them if they can dismiss you and your feelings so easily!
2007-08-15 07:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means you are very affectionate, and unlike many people today, you actually have a bond with more humans rather than animals, or material objects. This is why many people can make war, commit crimes and steal from the poor. Many have lost feeling for their fellow brothers and sisters, instead we have people who run over children in broad daylight, drive away, yet cry when their cat dies, or their dog is sick. Selfish people these days, but not you. I myself am a bit different yet similar I assume. I dont have any special attachment to anything, I can leave my family if I wish and not feel sad. Although I do realize that people are worth more and should be cared about more than animals and material objects.
2007-08-15 07:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is about a romantic relationship that has ended, then it might have to do with the way people cope. It's not that they can actually dismiss you that easily, it has to do with coping with the loss. A lot of people can only make healthy relationship decisions by completely not seeing that person - it is not out of sight - out of mind, and it is usually not easy, but it is easier than seeing the person every day or talking to them.
Hope this offered some insite!
2007-08-15 07:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by slinkies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good subject and a common issue including in my self.I think it's all about confidence(I am going to write an article about that).You see,someone doesn't like you but he is confident that he can go on without you and he just ignores you.Also he feels safe because he is thinking that he can take any "hit" from you.On the other hand maybe you lack confidence and you are afraid that the other person might get mad.So what?He would do the same to you without even blinking why can't you?Good luck mate.
2007-08-15 07:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by brich_inc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a kind and gentle hearted person if you find this to be your problem. Some ppl dismiss relationships so casually and over nothing while others of us seek meaning and long lasting relationships and if one of those relationships were to end we would feel at loss.
hang in there. Don't let what happens change who you are. Keep being the nice person it will pay off.
2007-08-15 07:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is and should be:
Is it right?
2007-08-15 09:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋