boob job - husband say no but perves on others,?

Question

I am quite confident and get abit of male attension. One thing I would change is my boobs they are well none existant. i use padded and gel bras just so my clothes fit right. i would jump at getting a boob job but my hubby says no but he does not make me feel any better about mine when he perves on ppl with bigger breasts. Recently looking at photos from a night out theres a close up of a pair of big boobs. There is also some at the end of our wedding pics DVD (nice). So its plain that my hubby (and most men) likes them so why not let me get the op then maybe it would n't upset me as much when I find pictures of boobs on my camara.

No not being paranoid - maybe over reacting. these pics are proper close up no faces, the lass has even pulled her top down for it.

the reason is he does not agree to any unneccessary op, which is understandable. Its not physically neccessary but emotionally. I know it wont stop him looking at other boobs but at least I would be happy with mine and I wont care.

Answer 1

First of all, you need to try to change your view on things. Small breasts are very sexy. Imagin they are the best on earth. At a party or in a bus look at women with small breasts, you'll notice they are not too many, because most of them cover them in padded bras. You'll also see women with large breasts which, as interesting as they could be, they will always lack the freshness and younghood the natural small breasts breathe out. There's a touch of juvenile, adolescentine look surrounding the small breasts that attracts the old cravings of a man for the woman child type(Lolita, Vanessa Paradis, the fairies). Small breasts are also perky and curious and larger breasts will never beat that. Be jealous when you see a woman with small perky breasts, they are the only one worth competeing with. Stop wearing bras. Let your breasts express themselves and you'll see that cotton and soft materials suit them better. Dont be afraid to show them. You'll soon see men's looks lingering on them. There are many men who love small breasts, but trust me the others will look too. Your husband will feel jealous and dont be surprised if you'll see him downloading small breasts pics. Dont tell anyone anymore that you want bigger breasts, play with yours instead and show confidence in them and you. You'll see how good it feels to make peace with your body and to love your beautiful small breasts.

A link to the the fans of the small breasts:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AimPrTXNjtmNv4mtHuJolY3ty6IX?qid=20070716042305AADPqSb

Beautiful actresses with small breasts: Kathleen Turner, Calista Flockhart, Keira Knightley.

Answer 2

Ok three things
1. Are you being a bit paranoid - maybe the photos and video is just a coincidence, showing the breasts as 50% of people have them!
2. It's your body, and you can do what the hell you like with it, so get a boob job if its going to make you happy
3. Discuss things SERIOUSLY with your husband. sit down together and talk about how this is an issue for you and if he doesn't have something supportive to say (he's entitled to his opinion but he should either make you feel happy with what you've got or support you) then consider getting a husband-ectomy!

Answer 3

Any decision of this magnitude should always include the opinion of the spouse, if married, however it is not the always the most important consideration. The most important consideration is making sure that you are doing it for the right reasons. More attention, better pics, and so forth while all well and good, do not balance the risks vs. benefits involved with this kind of surgery. If you only want this done to be more attractive to someone else or really any other reason aside from improving your own quality of life, then your decision to get this done is for the wrong reason. I know of many many women who have had this done and it was a wonderful thing that changed their lives forever, but I also know women who it did not and their lives actually worsened because of it. Based on what you have said in your question, I believe you are on your way to making a very sound decision. By thinking or yourself first and yet actively including your spouse in your decision making process, you not only show maturity and respect for his opinion, but a solid belief in your own self worth as well. All this being said, the decision to go ahead or not is ultimately yours and yours alone, all anyone else can do is stand beside you and offer support. Whatever you do, as long as the decision is made for the right reasons, while showing respect, appreciation for others opinions, it will not be the wrong decision.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

if you wanted to get a boob job, he would respect your wishes if he really loved you. at first they wont be attractive but after the healing period (a few months) they should setle and be soft just like your natural ones. you can even get finance with some cosmetic hospitals now.
if this is what YOU want to do, he should be there for you, i'd be devestated if my partner was perving over other people like that when hes with me! i hope you find what you're looking for.
*A.O.D*

Answer 5

A lot of men dont like how fake boobs feel, so he may actually like the way you are now, compared to fake ones. Plus, you cant think that if you had perfect breasts that he wouldn't look at others. He still will. He is of course a man.

I want to get a breast reduction one day, but my husband doesnt want me to. But he said I could, if I really wanted to.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Well it is your body and your choice, but did you ask him WHY he doesn't want you to get a breast augmentation done?

He might not like the look or feel of fake breasts, or he just loves you the way you are.

And, he's a guy, he's going to look at women's breasts. My fiance does, and it doesn't bother me because he goes to bed with ME and is marrying ME.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Perhaps your hubby is insecure and thinks that if you get a boob job other men will perv at you (just like he does!!) and he doesn't want other men perving at his missus...

Answer 10

Hi
I agree with VixMix, spot on. Go for it girl then post us a picture, not too big mind.
Ray. West York's. U.K.