Does my supervisor at work like me in THAT way? How can I tell? Hes acting weird...?

Question

Well... at work he treated me nice... let me rent supplies at work for free when I asked him if I could use it, but the policy is $5 per rent. I just thought by the way he acted sometimes and his body language that he may have liked me. Then one day at work I was sitting next to my guy friend.. (we goof off sometimes, as other people do too) And after 1/2 the day is over my supervisor moves him because his selling isnt up to par. well he was the only one moved and he got upset b/c he thought it was b/c my supervisor supposedly liking me and not wanting my buddy to sit next to me. he complained to another supervisor.... etc. and supervisor was supplosedly reprimanded for talking to me too much. Well he transfered to another city recently to go back to school. And on his last day there, I gave him a smile and a handshake goodbye, and then he winked at me. And we said bye.... well the next day he added me as a friend on a social networking site... and after a few days of talking I asked

him if he had the hots for me... since I heard it from about 4 diffrent people.. including another supervisor. His reply was that the people who said that say that any girl he looks at he all of a sudden has the hots for. Well why do I see signs that he likes me and then basically say no?? Or was he saying no?

Answer 1

The question is are you interested in him? If so, tell him. If not, then it doesn't matter if he is interested in you or not since he no longer works there. It sounds to me like you enjoyed his attention & may even want it. If this is true, then tell him. We go through so much of our lives never really being real, saying what we feel... then many opportunities are lost.

Warmly,
Pam Ragland
www.PamRagland.com

Answer 2

Guys always feel that way. As a matter of fact it's natural and when that energy is put into other things we are better at whatever we do. It's like the love I feel for flowers. I don't feel the need to own them or that they owe me anything more than being there and not even that. The memory and feeling stays is seems forever. Enjoy the flirtation as far as it goes. I love everything I look at and living things give me the most pleasure, but as soon as I turn my head I'm loving that too. A great way to live. Getting stuck in the last second is usually when something pained me. If your full of love you don't get stuck in the last second or yesterday. Now is all that really is. If your running on empty you get stuck where you are. Just love everything and fill er up.