2007-08-14 21:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LOve is not a simple thing to recognize at all. You just KNOW when you are loved and when you love someone. When you are willing to make any sacrifice to be able to share your life with someone. When you are wiling to overlook ALL of the other's flaws, both physically and personalitywise,. When you feel a need to be withthat person that's overwhelming. When the other person fills the needs that you have and you fill the other person's needs as well. When the two of you can be totally silent with each other and you STILL feel completely comfortable with that person. When the other can go away and not be seen for a while and you just KNOW that they WILL still be there for you and you can trust in the fact that they ARE coming back to you. These and SO many more are signs that there is love between you both.
2007-08-15 02:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all love is an action that brings about emotions.
So it is important to make sure that you look at the actions. Hugs and kisses,
listening and being attentive,
interested and caring,
honest and protective.
These (and many more actions if you know what i mean)are the actions that show love,saying "i love you"whilst not showing it in actions does not correspond because love is played out in the actions. So i say look at the actions!because that is what shows what love really is and if it is there.
2007-08-14 21:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by lindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect, trust and faith in someone. It may not take a lot of time to recognize the signs, but it certainly takes time to make sure they are secure.
2007-08-14 22:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't recognize love, they recognize things they like and call it love.
Love is like a meteorite that crashed in your yard, it just happens.
2007-08-14 21:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by riding128 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get to know the person if u love the way they are and u just cant get them out of ur mind u just might be in love
2007-08-14 21:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by candy_girl7312004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often people try too hard to find the right person and in doing this they miss noticing whom the right person is, even when they are in front of them.
A soul mate starts a healing journey for each other. The way we love as 21-year-olds will look drastically different than the way we love as 45-year-olds.
It may revolve around sex for some people (usually men), or not require sex at all for others!
Is likely to be intense as you work through what ever you don’t accept or love about yourself e.g.; lack of money, social standing, body shape etc.
Soul mates help clear emotional and mental blocks that stop you from achieving your true desires. By being able to think from the heart and move beyond differences or fears that surface.
Your soul mate is aligned to your spiritual or soul’s purpose and he or she may not fit into what your family or friends would consider is your ideal mate.
You will experience upheaval BUT this will disappear as you both move closer to being more true to yourself and doing what is right for you.
Inner peace is created though acceptance of each other’s differences and always learning to understand what your heart in thinking.
Love is probably the most misused word in the English language. We're all guilty of misusing it. We say we "love" chocolate, football, etc.
I guess you realize, as I do, that lovers will tell each other (or would-be lovers may tell a person) that they "love" them, when in fact they really don't.
Love doesn't apply only to romantic love.
You love your friends don't you? you love your family, even your dog. There are many different kinds of love.
Even in a marriage, love may range from hot lustful submission...that desires "BEING TOGETHER", to that comfortable love feeling that enjoys just "being there" (no pressure to do anything) just because of who you are, not what you do.
What love isn't:
No. 1: Hormonal. It is not the desire to hop into bed and have animal sex at every opportunity. That's a different l-word.
No. 2: Manipulative or demanding. If you truly love someone, you would never use those feelings to get something out of him or her.
No 3: Superficial. It's not pride in how hot, rich or popular your significant other is. If you want to be seen with that person in public because people get jealous that you're out with such a stud, you're not quite adult enough to be making good decisions.
No 4: Perfect. You're not perfect, your partner's not perfect; why would a union of the two of you be? Being in love will not make your life perfect; it will not solve all your problems; it's not the answer to all of your prayers. It's not a magic bean that makes the world rosy, at least not forever.
No 5: Something you fall into. Love happens when two people who are attracted to each other spend a lot of quality time together, who make each other better just by being together, who put the other person's needs and wants first. Love is not an accident, a coincidence or fate. Love is a process.
No 6: Something that you recognize immediately. Love takes different forms and looks different for each person in every relationship; and at different points in our lives.
No 7: A fairy tale or reality TV. He won't rescue you from a dragon or from a wicked witch with his kiss. That only happens in Disney movies. You have to make your own fairy tale. And the way to do that is not by getting onto "The Bachelor." Love doesn't happen like that.
What love is:
No 1: Charitable. When you love somebody, he or she is more important to you than you are to yourself. You want to serve him, listen to her and try to make the world a better place together.
No 2: Comfortable. It's when you can talk about emotional or embarrassing things, see the other person at his or her worst and hang out in your pajamas and have a good time.
No 3: The desire to make your sweetheart happy. It's when you eat something terrible with a smile on your face so you won't hurt her feelings, and when you ask questions about football and cars when you don't care about the answer. It's when you want to change the world so nothing ever makes her cry again. It's when he's hurting and can't admit it, so you hurt for him.
No 4: Private. It's a sacred, beautiful thing that loses much of its specialness when you parade it in front of everyone. It's an experience meant to be shared by two people. Leave it there.
No 5: Painful, sometimes. It hurts when your boyfriend forgets to call or when your girlfriend isn't listening to you. But it hurts because you care about that person. Allow the pain you experience in your relationship to help you two grow as a couple.
No 6: Fluid. Love changes as relationships progress. Right now you're in love because she's cute and he's sweet and you just love spending time with each other and kissing and talking. Ten years from now you'll be in love because your husband will get out of bed to take care of the baby and your wife irons your shirts every morning.
No 7: A verb. Love isn't something you have, something you find, something you are. Love is something you do, every second of every minute of every day forever. If you don't love your significant other every day, your love will die. You don't expect your car to maintain itself, why would you expect your love to?
2007-08-15 09:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that when she is sitting across from u and all u can think of is the naughty play that could happen after dinner...now thats beautiful love! when u pop a stiffy while staring at her skimpy outift at the club...now thats love!!!!! and when ur in the shower whackin it the next day to the same girl u saw the night before...ill sayit again b-e-a-u-tiful love!!!!
2007-08-14 21:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It isn't anything you will see! It is a feeling in the heart!
Totally encompassing!
2007-08-14 21:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when i first knew i was in love was right after the first time my boyfriend and i had butt sex... it was really kinky cause he actually went to the extent to put peanut butter on my butt and lick it off... i highly recommend this by the way!!! well after i knew i found someone who loved butt as much as i did i knew i love him
2007-08-14 21:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Vagisil 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when your heart beat very fast everytime you are with the special someone.
2007-08-14 21:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋