How can we balance this? Some times I am turned off because I just think he is being a horn ball. We fight about this often. I know some answers I'm going to get will be "give it up" but I want to be able to enjoy it too. How do I get a better sex drive???
2007-08-14 17:30:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kristie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him to ease into it instead of coming on to you like a "hornball". My husband has a very healthy sex drive as well and I used to get frustrated with him because his way of letting me know he was in the mood was to just walk up and rub my crotch....or he would just be all over me like a cheap date...once he figures out how to calm down and warm you up it won't be so hard to get in the mood but you need to talk to him and let him know what works for you.
2007-08-14 18:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by CalamityJane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a recent study out that says the more women "do it" the more they will WANT to "do it". I heard this on a radio talk show and this dr. says the study was published in some medical journal. But it said that when women have sex it raises testosterone levels in the brain and thus makes them want to have more sex. Now the study was only done in women. But I would bet this is true. They said even if the women doesn't have an orgasm, just the act alone will raise the testosterone levels. Pretty interesting.
2007-08-15 01:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by mamaofone1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sex drive is off the charts, but yours is just low. How many times a day does he want to be with you? 2? 3? 4?...more? How many times a year do you want to.....2? 3? 4? more? This info would be very relevant to your question.
2007-08-15 00:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different things that make u feel good also they have things to help women's sex drives now. Woman tend to have a lower drive after children but there r all kinds of things medicinal and traditional to help with this. A good book for the 2 of u to read is the one hour orgasm. It helps create the connection theat may be lost in the bedroom. Check it out
2007-08-15 00:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by jayman31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking anti-depressants? Most anti-depressants can cause a decrease in sex drive. If not consult a doctor or a sex therapist. Theres no use in giving it up if your not enjoying it.
2007-08-15 01:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should explain to your husband that if he makes sure it is enjoyable to you, you'll be much more interested in sex. Marriage is all about communication and compromise. Maybe you need to get some counseling to come to a workable solution.
2007-08-15 00:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by DK Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to marriage counseling, find a good sex class.
2007-08-15 00:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if your Doctor can do a test for low horomones, that might be your problem, espacially if you just had a child. If not see if you can go in for therapy
2007-08-15 00:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristie, does your husband satisfy you in bed. does he bring you to orgasm. does he preform oral sex on you. or does he just want it and then sleep?
2007-08-15 01:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by jimwhite_jimwhite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetness
don.t matter what he wants . its what you want that counts . you are not his slave . its a marriage .
2007-08-15 01:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋