2007-08-14 17:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mr. Raghavendra:
sir you already read the answer of mr. Vijay m. (lawyer) He saying exactly right: If she think mother in law is as a mother: etc.
When our Indian daughters come to our homes as daughter inlaws with polite they come as a polite with good respect. with the little bit dowry also. Specially after she enter our home she have to read our home customs and environment . First thing she always trust to her husband at present. There is no body for her in this world without her husband. She already left her birth place and her family.
In this regard first when she come to our home we have to give her good atmosphere like our own daughter and sister.
Mostly cases I have read news paper it is coming problem from our mothers by our sisters with our family members (not all) may be you have read how many cases we have seen regarding dowry regarding duty timings. almost now a days problem on money. So the husband have to explain her his house atmosphere.
Sir i am giving you only my openion not solution
Wish u all the best.
badar.
2007-08-14 20:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by badar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. But basically, I'd say to respect the family and not cheat on the husband. My in laws don't expect much from me. Just to treat their son (or brother or whatever the case may be) right, and be respectful, which I always am.
2007-08-14 17:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Elders ( father in law and mother in law) will expect the affection and service like a daughter. Sister-in-law and brother-in-laws wish to have love,affection,equal respect and service as their own sister and brother:
This is in a normal good family
2007-08-14 17:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing which is expected from the daughter-in-law is to consider he husband's house as her house, his parents as her parents & all his relatives as her relatives. Unless the daughter in law equates herself with her husband's home & his family from day one onwards she won't be able to adjust herself with the new situation which she has come after her marriage.
2007-08-14 17:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
if u (d-in-law) is educated n have a career, u have nothing to fear about, live ur life to the full, share ur earnings with ur in-laws so as to get the respect u deserve. Long live Women's Lib!
2007-08-14 18:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by jimmybond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To integrate herself completely in the new surroundings without losing her individual entity or personality.
2007-08-14 17:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by BDG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the culture, and the daughter-in-law.
2007-08-14 17:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) For normal daughters-in-law :- "To be treated properly".
(2) For abnormal daughters-in-law :- "To be treated like goddesses".
2007-08-14 18:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Devarat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat her like own daughter
2007-08-14 17:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by ANTHONY L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋