what are the dangers of having a threesome?

Answer 1

jealousy

Answer 2

1. The possibility the playmate may bring an STD into your relationship

2. The possibility either member of the couple could become jealous seeing their partner with the playmate

3. The possibility of the playmate becoming pregnant if it's a female

4. The possibility of damaging a friendship or having things turn really awkward, if the playmate is a friend of someone in the couple

5. The possibility one or both members of the couple will start to feel free to play with others, w/o their partner's okay

6. The possibility one member of the couple will become infatuated with the playmate and think the "grass is greener"

There are others....it can also be a fun, fulfilling, and erotic experience. It just takes a certain type of person/people to be able to handle adding playmates to their romantic relationship, and keeping that kind of sex on a "recreation only" level.

Answer 3

Well, for starters you wouldn't "triple your risks for getting an STD;" just double it since you're with two partners. You can't get an STD from yourself.

As long as both you and your partner have a strong relationship and healthy sexual appetite, there really isn't too many dangers.

Before you start you need to have a LONG conversation with your partner about it. You need to both be completely honest with each other about what you want and what you expect from the experience. Set down ground rules. Let your partner know how far you're willing to go and how far you're willing to see them go. Respect what you're partner says s/he doesn't want to see you do in a threesome and don't do it. You need to have a strong relationship with plenty of communication and respect to avoid many of the pitfalls that others have already brought up.

You can get an STD, but can limit your chances by using condoms and dental dams. Almost everyone who is into the swinging/swapping/joining scene insists on using condoms for safety. There is also a risk of pregnancy which can be greatly diminished by the use of a condom as well.

If you plan to include a friend, you probably shouldn't. It has the potential to ruin not only the friendship by being awkward afterwards but the relationship by someone thinking "well, we had sex with "friend" before, i'm sure it will be ok if i have one-on-one sex with friend as well.." Plus, if the friendship does later end, there is someone who lives in your community and knows all of your other friends and can blab the experience to everyone you know. Not a good thing.

The best thing to do is take a vacation with your partner and search on AdultFriendFinder for a 3rd party to join you for a night. Make sure you have plenty of condoms for safe sex. You can start out by meeting them in a hotel lobby for drinks and having a private word or phrase with you partner to let them know if it is ok with you if this person joins you in your room for sex. This way you get to meet the person, relax and unwind over drinks, become more comfortable with each other, still have the exciting experience of a threesome, but don't have to worry about ruining a friendship or the awkwardness of running into someone on the streets a week after picking them up from a bar in your own hometown.

Afterwards, it might be awkward or uncomfortable around your partner. They might have enjoyed the experience more than you or they might have completely hated it while you loved it. You need to have another conversation after it and let each other know how you feel about it. Love your partner, hug them and let them know that there is no pressure to do it again. As long as you respected each other's ground rules that were set down beforehand, things should be ok. It will just come down to personal preferences on whether they enjoyed the experience and would be willing to do it again. If they tell you that they don't want to do it again, respect this and don't push for it.

Theesomes can be a lot of fun and a way to spice up your sexlife, but if you don't have a trusting and respecting relationship already, they do run the risk of completely ruining your relationship.

Answer 4

there many dangers of having a threesome some of them are as follow STD ,hurting them one you love, you might end up more sexual aroused by the other person then what do you do.

Answer 5

Diseases like STDs, AIDS, Herpes, and that your partner will either fall in love with the other person or will want to continue threesomes with lots of other people.

Answer 6

My only response to this would be that if you are involved with one of the two you don't care about them at all. You may think that you do but you don't.
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Dangers I guess would be that you are never going to be able to make a lasting relationship out of that so why even bother being in it now. Sorry but that is the truth...

Answer 7

Well the STDs is all i can think of.

I mean if you use the same condom (assuming you use one) for both of them, you could spread it from 1 girl to the next.

Also, if 1 is your girlfriend or something, and you pay more attention to the other girl, it could be bad on your relationship

Answer 8

1. STDs
2. The third person that joins an already involved couple might be "better", "bigger", or whatever and one of the already involved couple may not be satisfied any longer with their current lover.
3. Jealousy
4. Hurt at seeing their lover with someone else

Answer 9

An obvious is that the person you are in the relationship with might find the 3rd person more interesting and leave you for them.

Answer 10

This is a risky but great oppurtunity. On the down side it doubles the chance of your girlfriend finding out your cheating. But the dual service experience is worth it. Bonus points if they are sisters. Double bonus if it is a mother duaghter due....grrrrr

Answer 11

well if your partner already has somone in mind then chances are they already have carnal knowledge of that person... I speak from experience. Bottom line is DO NOT DO IT! RUN!