Well I am talking to this guy that I met online. I block my number though. I known him for like two months. At first we would chat online. He began to like me. He told he wanted to date me but I rejected him. I told him that I would like to be his friend. I want to get to know him better. We did not talk for a month. Just this week end he contacted me and told me that he could not stop thinking about me and care for me. I was wondering if I should give him my phone number now.
I am 21 and he is 22. I gave him my home number instead of my cellphone. He spoke to my mother. I just did not want him to call me directly.
2007-08-14 12:54:18 · 19 answers · asked by * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I part this in the Marriage & Divorce section to get older people opinion.
2007-08-14 12:56:46 · update #1
I only gave him my home phone number and nothing else because I wanted my parents to know him.
2007-08-14 13:01:27 · update #2
He did give me his number.
2007-08-14 13:03:10 · update #3
HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT?
2007-08-14 13:05:22 · update #4
I would NEVER date or MEET anyone online or a chat room. It is too dangerous. People tend to let strangers in their home through the Internet.
-It is a gateway for predators to reach you.
You see it all the time on the news. It isn't good.
-"Be very careful and make sure you are not talking to Captain Howdy."
2007-08-18 12:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have given him your home number or any number at all. You don't know this guy and a lot of times people will say anything on the computer to get you to do what they want you to do. Just recently on the news a girl was talking to this guy and the guy finally got the girls phone number and address and the guy came and picked the girl up and so far for about a month in a half the family has not seen the girl, and the guy kept telling the girl that he loved her and he'd do anything for her, and he loved her conversation, bla, bla, bla. So this is just to warn you that you never talk to ANYONE over the internet
2007-08-14 20:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by hez_able 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to give out a number online, you should of given him your cell phone number, because at least you can turn off your cell phone if he starts any nonsense, but you can't do that with the home phone, so now if things don't work out and he gets nasty and starts making abusive calls, your parents will be on the receiving end of this crap as well as you.
2007-08-14 20:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to really careful with online dating--dont give out your number to him and he should understand. If you meet him, ALWAYS meet in a very public place and let others know your whereabouts. With online dating you have to learn the art of reading between the lines---I would be really concerned about his silence for a month---always assume that you are not the only one.
If he gives you the silent treatment for being careful with your life---then let this one go.
2007-08-14 20:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think if you tryna get raped then give it to him now. I know he may be a good guy but think about it. People who are nieve enough to trust everyguy they talk to are the ones who get raped. rapists have ways. talk to him more. Get his number and *67 him then if you genuinely think he's a good guy go meet him with a male friend or two of you girl friends. Have a group date. Go to a public place. Go on a double date. go on a double date and make sure that someone is home before you go home. I'm tryna look out for all my girls out there so just heed this warning!
LOOK OUT GRLFRIEND!
2007-08-14 20:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by chocopink92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually get to know him as in more than a couple of months before you come to the conclusion you "know" him.
Anyone can pretend to be something they're not for a period of time but consistency over an extended period of time proves and reveals who they really are.
2007-08-14 20:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by dedmunne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! you have never met this guy for all you know he could be a 12 wanting girls to call or a 52 year old pervert do not do it get a man that you can HEAR talk
2007-08-14 20:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by mistoemegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be ever so careful. People can be anything they want and you want them to be on-line. If you do decide to meet this person, do so in a public place, maybe even with a group of people. Make sure you're safe. There's a lot of sick people out there and I hate for you to become another statistic.
2007-08-14 20:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by goodcook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would give it alittle more time and try to get to know him better and then when u have no question in ur mind that he is for real then go for it. Try having him send u tons of pics so u will know that he is who he says he is
2007-08-14 20:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Candie137 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are asking for trouble.....And you might even get your parents involved in this mess too!
You don't know who this person is...With so many weirdos around, I think you are being too impulsive and you are risking getting burned...! Watch out!
2007-08-14 20:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋