when ur making out with someone and they start to.......(read on)?????????

Question

ok when ur making out with some1 and it starts 2 get really hot n heavy...and then they start to want to go further....do u stop them and tell them "no, im not ready 4 that"....or do u keep going even tho u kno ur not really ready?! just wondering wat u guys do in that situation! thanks

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Answer 1

Go all the way!!!!

Answer 2

Usually, I try to push the girl off me. But these women... they can be such animals when they are in heat! Once they get the itch, my goodness. You better start running as fast as you can.

It's so tough being a guy these days. You can't simply refuse to give a woman what she wants if she's already made up her mind to get it from you. Because we all know women are going to get what they want...one way or the other. I just hate when they get aggressive and violent. Like last week, some girl I didn't even know that well actually pinned me to the floor and refused to let me leave until I pleasured her.

And it's even harder to escape when the girl is hanging with her "girl crew." Because as soon as her female friends start checking you out, then it's really over. Because they want in on the action too.

Now... I'm a strong guy, and I could overpower one or two maybe three girls on a good day--and maybe if I'm lucky I could escape if my path was clear and unobstructed.

But when there's five or six, you have to have a weapon to defend yourself--otherwise it's going to be a long night and you're going to be really sore in the morning. Even if you do manage to take off in one direction, with five or six girls, they can easily surround you. And then you are trapped.

My worst experience was probably the sorority house episode. I'll spare you all the traumatic details. But for all the guys out there reading this...I leave you with one important piece of advice--don't ever walk near a sorority house late at night when you are alone.

Why is it that the only thing women can think about all day is having sex with guys? We are not just sexual objects for your pleasure. There's a lot more to us guys than just our sexual anatomy, you know.

Answer 3

Well.........personally I'm never not ready for that situation, but I would suggest you don't let it get to the point where it's all hot and heavy. You don't go any further than you are ready for. I don't know how old you are so I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't be doing that, but if you are young then you shouldn't be doing that.

Answer 4

Well, guys aren't usually the one to put the brakes on ;-) But I have done it, when I wasn't comfortable with how well I really knew the person. It didn't go over well, most women aren't used to being told no, since they usually control the situation. I also recomend any girl to do this with a new potential lover, it will tell you a lot about the guy. If he respects you he will put on the brakes, if not he will be all put out that you're a tease, or keep coming on to you trying to break you down. So yes, if you aren't ready, absolutely feel free to put the brakes on anytime!

Answer 5

If you feel like you're not ready just say so. I've accutally been in a few situations like that. Just be careful, becuase not everyone is going to stop.

Answer 6

Stop them. Usually they get the hint from my body language when im ready to go further and it is tempting to go further when caught up in the moment but if you have an inkling of doubt you should trust your instincts ;)

Answer 7

Don't ever, ever let a guy go farther than what you are comfortable with. You'll most likely only regret it...I've been in the situation before; just say you're not comfortable with it. Or "I can't do that." If he's a good guy, he'll understand. Mine did.

Answer 8

if your not ready then its best to stop that session of making out completely. guys will come up with every reason in the world to take it further. just stop everytime they want more until your ready.

Answer 9

i go all the way only with a guy i have known for a while if its the first few dates then no i tell him i am not ready.

Answer 10

If you aren't ready, you stop them and say so. Just know eventually if you continue to go that far you either won't stop or they'll get tired of being teased. If you're not ready, don't let it get that far.

Answer 11

I'm married so it's ok that I don't stop him. But before I got married if I wasn't ready I had no problem saying so, I won't do anything I don't feel comfortable doing.