I AM WORRiED??????

Question

Ok i am worried and i know what you are going to say that if you have to ask then you aren't ready so if you are going to say that don't waste my time or your time but i am going to cedar poing with a group of friends with no parents for the first time because i just turned 16 my parents trust me that i am not going to do anything but my boyfriend is going too and we have been going out off and on since i was 10 and he thinks that its time for us to sleep together and i am so worried because i don't want to get pregnant! but i want to have sex with him what should i do

Answer 1

First of all if you are a virgin don't try using a condom to break your virginity it may cause some damages,even if it doesn't cause damages some condoms made are not safe and don't use birth control.Those who told you to use them don't want the best for you.You are just 16 how many more years till you get married? let jut say 3. Be patient.

Answer 2

is your worry of getting pregnant your only reason you aren't having sex with him?

you need to talk to him about this. because it sounds to me like you are not emotionally ready to have sex. it's a big deal and if you are already this worried maybe you should wait.

but if you do choose to have sex, make sure you want to and not just for his sakes. as well use protection. and if you are considering that you might have sex regularly or even at all, you should seriously talk to your parents and see about getting you on some form of birth control.

because without it, you have a large chance of your biggest worry coming true. so be safe.

Answer 3

Only have sex if you feel totally ready and you love and trust your partner. Also its not only pregnancy you should be concerned about theres also all sorts of nasty things you could catch. my best advice to you is to go on the pill or another form of contraception but also to use condoms to protect against infections. Also dont let anyone pressure you in to it only do it when its right for you .

Answer 4

So your just here to get some people your age to agree with you because that's what they would do and your not at all worried about the ramifications of your actions, the fact that even if you do use protection you could still get pregnant, your going to do what you want, forget the consequences

Answer 5

If you think you are ready, and you are sure. Get on the pill or some type of birth control. Then double your protection with a condom with spermicide, it will help protect you from pregnancy as well as STD's. Talk to your ob if you have any questions.

Answer 6

Don't have sex!!!!!!!! I was with a guy for 4 years off and on I thought he was the one till he got another girl pregnant. I know you want to but you really don't need to. I am now 21 and I wish I would not have done what I did. And condoms don't always work.

Answer 7

Well, if you are asking us what you should do then you are obviously not ready! If you have sex and do get pregnant even with protection are you ready for a baby? You never know.

Answer 8

Okay, relax, take a breath and listen carefully. the only way you can get pregnant is if his sperm comes into contact with your vagina. The best way to prevent this is by using a condom. Make sure the condom is put on correctly and make sure it has the official mark on it. Condoms are also most affective at preventing STD's aswell. I was just the same, but over time i went onto the pill also so now we're doubly protected.

Answer 9

It's this simple . . .
have sex = get pregnant. Don't have sex= don't get pregnant.

I guarantee your BF will squirt inside of you. Even if he says he'll pull out in time. It feels sooooooooo goooooood
right before we squirt that we are so tempted to let it go. We often do and then pull out to finish. We know girls can't feel us shooting sperm. They believe us.

Answer 10

well if your 10-14 just dont even think about it your to young and a moment of pleasure isnt worth a baby if you cant take care of it. Stop it before it happens