i am stating my real problem so please only serious persons answer this
i saw a girl who was disturbed with her husband and i like her from the day i have seen her first. she told me that her husband is not doing sex with her. i asked her that i can do that with her.
she agreed and we made sex twice or thrice.
after some weeks she declined to do sex with me, as her husband has started doing sex with her. now i like her but i don't want to marry her as we have different opinions about most of the things.
but i can't live without her and i can't resist my self in front of her.
i have proposed her for marriage also but she declined that also.
she asked that she is ready to be beated by her husband but she can't marry me.
what should i do now.
please help!!
2007-08-14 07:01:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should NEVER have had sex with her. You need to move on with your life. Cut off all contact with her and find a girlfriend that is single and doesn't have baggage.
2007-08-14 07:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, this is a classic example of why you shouldn't get involved with married women, period (apart from the obvious moral reasons against violating the sanctity of marriage). She is not free to accept your proposal no matter how compelling she might find you to be because she's married. She should never have told you that she wasn't having sex with her husband in the first place because it was none of your business. Having slept with her, now you're caught up in her and there's nothing you can do about it except run around with your feelings hurt. This was easily avoidable from the outset. I'm sorry you had to go through this, but it's a valuable lesson for the future in this for you....it can't have a happy ending. Even if you got her, in the end, you've won a cheater which means she would never be the apple of your eye because you'd wonder when and if she was going to cheat on you, too. Try your best to forget her, and best wishes in your future endeavors.
2007-08-14 14:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't accuse you, as this same thing happen to me. Not that cheating is right. Its actually wrong and I do regret it myself, but it happens -- more so than people would agree to talk about or admit.
As for the women you got involve with. Leave her a lone. She had sex with you because it was MISSING from her marriage. Seems like she is happy staying with her husband. The only thing missing was the intimacy/sex and since that has returned she wants nothing to do with you.
I'm sorry, but its the cold hard facts. You must move on
--Jay
2007-08-14 14:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you don't have the same opinions but you'll marry her instead of losing her? NOO Move on with your life. It wasn't right for you two to have slept together in the first place and I have a feeling you took advantage of that girl in her state of weekness. You need to leave her alone and stay away from her so she can work out her problems with her marraige.
2007-08-14 14:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being involved with someone who is married is a really bad idea.. I was involved with someone for 11yrs who ended up getting married 4 years after we started a relationship if that is what you want to call it..And it ended up really bad.. I got pregnant he denied the baby.. Needless to say she ended up finding out and I ended up with a pissed off woman at my door talking mess.. And the next day with 4 slashed tires... It really isn't a good situation.. Be careful you can end up really getting yourself hurt over this...
Trust me I will never ever mess with someone who is married.. You end up being used for sex and that is it.. Being used isn't a good way to live life and no matter what they say they will never leave there spouse.. Treat yourself better and find someone who loves you and only you...
2007-08-14 14:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by precious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an English class and learn correct pronunciations and it will take your mind off the the mess you got yourself into and need to get out of.
2007-08-14 14:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by jungljn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is taking what she wants from you, obviously she can't have the whole of you, for reasons of her own, marriage isn't always easy to break and maybe she loves her husband
2007-08-14 14:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sahar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..ask for forgiveness and leave her alone...she sounds confused and sounded like she lied just to get you...now her husband is having sex...what in the world? why did she sleep with you then ..thats crazy talk...you deserve better ..change your number and disconnect from her completely.....
2007-08-14 14:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never should have slept with her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Move on and get over her.
2007-08-14 14:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Katie G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to have sex with someone you are not married to. Please try finding someone else. It would not work because you would be afraid that she would do the same to you.
2007-08-14 14:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋