To make a point! Girls and guys tell the truth no smart answers!?

Question

What do u guys think of a girl that gives up sex so easy like on the first date or so. And ladys how do we talk about those girls that do this. This is just to make a point to these young foolish preteen and teen girls that should be holding off till they are older. Please dont answer smart or crazy make a point to these girls.

If anything I can say to change the minds of these young gilr to keep some jerk from using them I will take every insult that can be throwed. And straight up answers can make a diffrence I not a youngn I am 33 married with two boys that I tell every time I it comes up to respect ur self and girls.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How many guys do u see up here asking do u think I'm preg? My stomache is getting big think about it teach the girls the guys dont get any thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 1

I am seventeen and am in high school, going into full time college.

Believe me, any time my friends and I hear of girls we know having sex with everybody they meet, we think it is really bad. It's one of those "oh,so she's THAT kind of person" things, and it is NOT attractive! Even the ones who dress 'skanky' that we don't know about are always placed in the category of not-a-person-we-are-friends-with.

Even guys don't think it's attractive. Sure they might like the sex, but don't think that they are going to have a serious, longlasting relationship with these people. One night stands are just that. Forgotten in a week, except to maybe keep count of the girls they laid in the month.

Answer 2

Ok this is in no way a relationship. If no one has asked either one out. I am pretty sure you guys are just friends right now and talking, it could go into more but right now you guys are just getting to know each other. I would not call this complicated yet. Complicated things usually happen after there's been a few fights and you guys were together but are taking a break or something like that. From here on out, I would try to get a better feel of how she feels about you. Some girls just don't know how to reject a guy so they go along with it forever... so you need to make sure that she likes you and then maybe you guys could go out on a date and then see where it goes.

Answer 3

I always thought they was trashy.I don't care who their parents are or how much money they have it is just trashy. Yeah I did give into it and even though we used a condom and I took my birth control like a religion I still had a daughter at 17. I didn't get to do everything that everyone else did. I lost my figure and no matter how much you stick to a diet while pregnant you will still have a different body when your not. Not everything pops back. Some stuff never goes back to the way it was. Not to even think about the fact you will the easy girl in school. Once the guys know they can get it they only want to date you long enough to get what they want and then they go find someone who is gf material. I wish I would have waited. I have alot of friends who have waited til they got married and they have no regrets!

Answer 4

Having sex on the first date establishes clearly that the relationship is based on sex. As such, most guys after this will either 1) lose interest because they got what they want and now they can move on to their next sexual target, or 2) keep coming back for more... more sex, that is. At this point the guy has conceptualized the girl as a sex object, not a person to relate to on a closer level. If a girl uses sex to attract a guy, then of course, it is the sex that's got his interest. If you want him interested in other aspects of your personality, THOSE are the things you need to use to draw him in, and make sex a non-factor until he's very much interested on a personal level without the promise of sex being the lure. As a guy I would say that girls should not have sex until they are 18. Even between 18-30 most girls are not emotionally mature enough to handle sex and wrongly believe that it can be exchanged for love.

Answer 5

teen's and preteens that do this, do it for a reason. The reason is usually to fit in a group. They want to be liked or are just pretty much searching for acceptence/love. There are all kinds of names i can think of what other girls and boy's may call this teenage and preteenage girls but im not gonna say anything to hurt anyones feeling. This is not right and you shouldnt just have sex or sexual relations with anyone on the first date... or second....or third!!! You should wait until you have a relationship with this person before giving your body, yourself too this person you might not even know! Sex isnt the most important thing in life and you young preteen's and teen's should realize it!

Answer 6

When I was younger, and now that I'm older too, I "give it up" to people I wanted to have sex with. It wasn't like I was being taken advantage of or pressured...
I was 16 when I lost my virginity and I knew all about condoms and b/c. I have never regreted anyone I've slept with unless the sex was terrible. Then my only regret was wasting my time.
I think there is a misconception that boys are always horny and push young girls into sex. For me, this was never the case. Did it ever occur to you that these girls might enjoy having sex? It does feel pretty good...
Sometimes we do it for the wrong reasons, but the desire is still there.
Preteen is WAY too young, and I have to blame the parents for that kind of behavior, but I believe that by age 16 or 17 a girl is fully competent to make her own decisions about relationships and sex.
My advice to young girls is this:
If you're old enough to have sex, you need to be fully prepared to accept any consequences that may arise, like pregnancy or STDs. If you feel that you can handle that, then go ahead...have sex if you so desire.

Answer 7

Well thers no need for this!
im a teen my self

some may say they should be holding off
but if your in a relationship that youve been in for ages ( and im talking just over 10 months (maybe a year) ) then you dont no how lucky u are. to have a relationship with someone that long, whos suck wiht you through so much. you has loved you and you know will continue to do that. and when the question of sex comes up that its a decision you both make together
and were contraception
then i dont see why not

not at the age of 13... or 14

15 maybe
afterall 16 is the legal age


i take it that your old? (no offence) and probably believe in sex after marraige... well thats your own choice

now a days you can get a boyfriend that you choose ur self
ur parents have connections with his family
your parents think is a suitable match

the worlds moved on, maybe not for the better
and maybe the relationships arent as happy as they would of been in your day but to make a point by faulting peoples own decisions isnt soemthing you do..

its fair enough to give opinions
its fair enough to be for & against
but its not fair to make a point of ur own believe!

but i agree on the first date or so. it is pretty stupid it makes them out to be cheap....

Answer 8

This is a very good question!! Thank you for asking! I always thought the 'worst' for the girls that engaged in sex at such a young age. I did think they were bad girls, until I was confronted with my own peer pressures. I had enough self esteem to say "NO" and hold to that decision. I will tell you ... I was given those bad names even not having sex and some people even accused me of having sex. I was truly embarrassed when a teacher asked to talk with me. Saying she heard I was pregnant. What a shock to me! Not many people believed me... but I did prove them all wrong. So I got to thinking... I prejudged many girls without knowing actual facts. I am sure some of them also did not engage in sex but rumors were made.
I am now 27, still single and not been sexual with any man. Looking back, I am truly glad I waited. Now my soon-to-be husband and I are relieved to know we both are disease free!! We can start our family together!

Answer 9

I think that WOMEN have the right to have sex whenever they want, with whomever they please. I am 29, educated, single, and I make that choice myself. I don't tell other women what to do, and they should not make judgment calls on me. However, when it comes to young girls, this is not the case. Scientists have suggested that teen brains are not wired the same as ours. They cannot quite see ramifications of deleterious behavior. I didn't have sex until I was 21.....and I think I should have waited longer. These girls need to realize that they are not capable of having an adult relationship at their age, and as such, should wait until they are ready and able to deal with all aspects of physical involvement. Before sex, they should consider a few things:
1. Can you financially support a baby? Birth control can and does fail. Even if you opt for abortion, those are expensive. Do you feel comfortable discussing sex and birth control? Have you been to your gynecologist and had a pelvic exam?
2. Are you ready to deal with an STD? You can get them even with condoms. They will affect you for the rest of your life.
3. What if the guy you are sleeping with walks out on you and starts seeing your best friend tomorrow? Will you have regrets?
Wow hey to all of you people calling them whores, or whatever, are you perfect? Let he who is without sin cast the first stone......and I doubt you are the epitome of sainthood.

Answer 10

I say it's a dangerous gamble, and the relationship will never be anything else than just sex. Why do think that they make a joke about it being folklore that a one night stand turned into a relationship. Plus, you'll get more in return if you make the guy work for it. Here's an example:
And this is straight from a guy's mouth that I know: He said, "Women could rule the world with their pu**ies. If they did, we'd have a lot more authority figures who were women, and men would just follow them around like puppies. They have no idea the power they carry between their legs!"
No sh*t... a guy that I know (who is acutally quite a womanizer) said that!
Think about it... it's true, and pretty powerful!

Answer 11

I think that some personal experience when talking to girls helps. I know I was one of those girls once and fell for about any line I was given, since my mom never explained any differently, so maybe let girls know that real proof a guy loves them is he's willing to wait. Pressure is not proof of love and if they are not ready to accept all consequences that go along with such a decision, they should wait. Also, if a peer that has already made a choice and would be willing to open up to them about it, that could help too.