Ok, more detail. we live in a apartment EVERYTHING is in my name cause he has bad credit. His kids live with their mom and come every weekend and also stay for the summer. I have gave him ultimatiums to get a job or get out, wich results in him looking for a job for a week. I have kicked and screamed and i've told him nicely to get his act together. He has a VERY large family and i'm scared they will hate me, cause he is the baby of the family. His kids mother left him too. wich he says is not true. My family likes him but they don't really know what's going on. I think the kids know what's up they are 15 and 13 but still look up to their dad and they are boys. I think they look at me as replaceable. Befor we even moved in together his lack of motivation was a problem he was using me then. I just can't take it anymore, I work in a stressful enviroment and have to come home to him laying on the couch with a beer in hand. I don't make love to him cause i have no respect for him.
2007-08-14 06:14:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This sounds like too much drama and financial responsibility for you. His kids don't seem to respect you, you seem more worried about what his family thinks about you than what he thinks of you, you're being secretive with your family. This all spells out a crappy situation that you don't deserve. It sounds like it's time to cut the cord and break up or at least get separate places to live. You don't want his inability to be a man to screw up your credit and you just deserve so much better, especially if you work hard as it is.
2007-08-14 06:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sophra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can really make that decision. You know all of his quirks and ways of handaling things. Don't base it completley on us here or myself. HOwever, I would say to drop him, but its a very difficult thing to do. It seems in you best interest to do so and its better off on you to do this. Think about it hard and come up with your decision. You need to be happy and cant care what other people think, ask some other people close to you like your parents or cousins or a sibling. They can also help you, I hope I helped and good luck, I hope it all works out!
2007-08-14 13:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your funny this is a test, no1 would put up with this, an if you did
2007-08-14 13:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a mess he needs to get motivated or get out, why is he wasting his life away he is wasting your time, I am sure you deserve better then this?
2007-08-14 13:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel welllllll................... this a easy one just forget him gurl he is lazy n doesn't do anyhting n he looks like he isn't willing to change either........move on for your sake u can't do anything with a person who doesnt wanna help themselves
2007-08-14 13:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋