i pick on my sis. all the time, And i do lots of mean things to her 4 no reason. i am always by myself and i always feel alone in the world. I have no friends that live near me, just friends on the internet. I don't always talk to them 4 advise cause some times i'm emberested!! Am i a bad person??
2007-08-14 04:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i want to be a good example on my sis. but it's so hard!!! i pray that god will help me ,but i always feel alone, what should i do?? i'm thinking i should give up on all hope!!!
2007-08-14 04:52:21 · update #1
I need answers before i ................
2007-08-14 04:55:42 · update #2
i start school on the 16th and i can't leave the house when my mom's at work, so i'm at home all day!!!
2007-08-14 04:58:45 · update #3
everytime i apoligize i get the cold shoulder( i geuss i deserve it ) but i mean t every time. I want some motavation!!! to stop!!!
2007-08-14 05:05:35 · update #4
I love my sis. and i'm not mean 2 her, i just feel empty inside, like something in me is missing, the friends i get on the internet ar'nt filling that hole!! and every day i find more reasons why i'm a bad person!!!! and i cry in my room sometimes!!!
2007-08-14 05:10:13 · update #5
: ( i know how you feel...im switching schools because my parents think its a "good opportunity" for me to go to this private school so all my friends are at school and i dont start until next week, it sucks. and i have issues with feeling alone especially when i try to sleep my mind starts racing and i cant find peace
2007-08-14 07:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the way you describe it, it seems to be that you feel that way about yourself.
you should stop hurting your sister, i mean if you don't have real freinds ( ones that are not internet freinds) you shouldn't take out your anger on your sister, you should protect her from harm , not harm her.
freind's will come and go, but your sister will always be there for you no matter what in the future, whether you get sick, why would you want to pick on her?
you are not the only one in this world who feels alone, most people do, i know i do, but i don't pick on my little sis, cos i love her, and she can give me more than a freind can give me...which is support...
if you treat your sister badly, think about your own future, how will you treat other women in your life, especailly when you have a girlfreind or a lover, would you want to pick on her, so also she will leave you in the end?
try to make friends, don't wait for them to make the first move, i only had 3 freind at high school cos i was quiet and felt alone, but now in university, i pushed myself (challeneged myself) to see how many freinds i could make, and now i have more than 10 freinds who i can confide in at various situations, and i found that it's not just me that feels alone, there are others who feel the same way too.
maybe you treat your sister the way you do because you have been picked on when your were in school ( or at school), if this is happening, report to your parents and teachers immediately for help and to stop these idiots from bullying you...rember your sister doesn't deserve the pain they give to you...but she will be there for you when you need her...
i hope what i said helps you...good luck...also if you want to release your anfer, play a sport or do some exercise or play a game...
2007-08-14 05:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by devil_nation 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, given your level of remorse, I can't say you're intentionally mean. More likely, you're isolated and bored and acting out. But, your sister is still paying the price. You need something to fill your time; preferably something that will get you out of the house and interacting with other people. Start a hobby or a sport, join a club, something that will interest you, give you things to fill your free time, and allow you to meet people and develop some face-to-face friends.
2007-08-14 04:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're doing is kind of mean. Try being friends with your sister or try to be friends with some of the kids at school or around your neighborhood. And remember this: sometimes we have to learn how to be by ourselves before we can be with others.
2007-08-14 04:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of picking on your sister and doing mean things - how about going out of your way to do something nice for her (and perhaps others in your area). I believe the more you do for others the better you feel about yourself. I might even suggest doing these nice things without them knowing it was you.
2007-08-14 05:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by The Corinthian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r one of them people i like to call fosters-the people who are just wandering in their own heads,sort of the lone wolves,but not quite. u aren't a bad person. u r just lonely.
2007-08-14 04:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by psycho_system 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk ur not a bad person ur just making bad choses
2007-08-14 06:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋