Hey folks...I'm in deep ****...the women I love is 5 years older than me she's 24 ..is there any way to make her fall in love in me ...I mean women basically dont lyk younger guys...pls help me...my look, personality & maturity is okay...
2007-08-14 04:40:46 · 13 answers · asked by i_like_your_passion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey folks..I never expected that I'd recieve so many answers...Thanks for your time.
I'll just keep trying &
I'll try my best, but thanks anyway
2007-08-14 07:17:57 · update #1
You may be wasting your time. The age diff for you is much greater than if you were 25 and she 30. It is just too much to overcome. But good luck.
2007-08-14 04:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - five years is not that big of a difference.
Second, to make her fall in love - ah, the question of the ages
Third, you say that women basically dont lyk younger guys - perhaps some of the new slang might be applied here - ever hear of a "Cougar" -An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie. Cougars are gaining in popularity (not necessarily a good thing) -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her **** together.
2007-08-14 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by The Corinthian 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So going on "Answers " is a sign of maturity? Think again bright eyes. I will assume the two of you are "doing" each other, and it's the best you've ever had. It's hard to imagine that she may be using you for sex, but, that can be an option. Do the two of you go on dates? Do you get introduced to her friends? Meeting the friends is a good way to gage if she is serious about you. All I know, is, that if you come on too strong you will definitely blow it. If you start to hook up with your amigos for some "boy time" you may revert back to those "immature" ways and blow it that way. Just stay away from the "L" word for the time being and keep on smiling!
2007-08-14 04:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell when I was 23 I was seeing a 33 year old - it was a lot of fun but ended with me falling in love - I was in the most ridiculous situation, I had a very beautiful girlfriend and the older woman was married. I dumped my girlfriend - something I always regretted and the older woman dumped me - I got my just deserts!!
I think your age difference is fine but do not get too sucked in - you have more time than you realised - just enjoy what you have!
2007-08-14 06:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 4 years younger than me. Your age means a lot less than your maturity level and the things you have in common. If you really care for her, tell her so, and see if there's any chance for a relationship. Ask her out on a date, see what sort of things you have in common with one another and just let things take it's course. If she really likes you, she won't care about your age.
2007-08-14 05:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by firebugarts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you can not make a women fall in love with you it has to happen on its own but if u would like her to understand ask her out and show her how fun you are and tell her she looks beautiful women love that=] maybe good things can come from that<3
2007-08-14 04:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by sexyabomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I chuckle at the notion of a 24 year old woman being considered "older" but I suppose it depends on one's perspective. You may not have whan a 24 year old is seeking at present in terms of security, but not to worry, all of these things balance out rapidly in the scheme of things.
2007-08-14 04:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you in deep sh it? Just get to know her on a level and take it from there. If she ain't into younger men then you can't change her view. I once had a 22 year old toyboy and I was 29. . .so it depends on your so called maturity. Good luck.
2007-08-14 04:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by ǝsɹnuʎxǝs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not always the case, there are a lot of women who date younger men, you just need to be yourself, and remember, that you are a teen, and she is just become a adult, and having to take care of herself, so your goals may not be the same, but if you talk about it, it'll work.
GOOD LUCK
2007-08-14 07:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Janice Dickinsons' Shrink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most older woman like young boys but they are afraid of the society.
One can make a love with any age woman or girl but to marry choose a girl 7 years less than your age. It will be good for you in long term life partnership.
2007-08-14 04:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋