What is wrong with people?

Question

I you are pregnant than you should have the baby, not kill it. Just because you are so messed up in the head, doesn't mean that you can just kill an innocent life. You are killing your own child! If you really don't want a baby, then you should just stop having unprotected sex. Please just tell me why these horrible mothers are getting away with murder.

Beautifulirishgirl, I am sorry that you had cancer, and lost your baby. If I was in your situation, I probably would have done the same thing. If your life is in danger, then that is the ONLY time you should get an abortion.

Chrystal, everyone is entitled to their own decisions, I agree. All people have their rights, including the innocent baby that the mother is killing. If she was raped, then I can understand, but if she was just messing around, and oops she missed her period, then she should have the baby, its her fault that she got pregnant.

Answer 1

Is it better to bring a unwanted baby into this world that is going to be neglected or abused?
What is a woman gets raped, she should be forced to have a baby that is not wanted and that will remind her daily of horrible crime that was committed against her.
Who are you to judge anybody? I don't see people like you standing out in front of the abortion clinics telling the women that you will pay for all their medical bills and raise that child, no instead you just shove your opinion down everyone's throat you are always part of the problem and never part of the solution.

Answer 2

I hope that you are never in a situation where abortion is a consideration. The above post by the woman that had cancer was a prime example.

have you ever been raped? Do you have a clue what that does to a woman mentally? And to force her to carry around that reminder for 9 months, ever kick and movement making her relive her attack? I don't think I would be strong enough. I'd probably kill myself and the therefore the baby if I had to live with that. And for the woman that have, and even raised and loved the child, you are a strong person, and I admire you completely.

And if you had a mental disabled child, and had to choose, which would you choose? Your unborn child, our your child that depends on you for everything?

Walk a mile....

But you have no right to judge, no one does. And this question should have been in the political side, not pregnancy. You've already stated your opinion. I don't think abortion is a form of birth control, but it is an individuals right...as is smoking, drinking, and generally making an @$$ out of themselves. I am sure you are thankful for that last one.

Answer 3

I'm sorry but how can you say that? I'm not for Abortion but I'm not against it when it's used in the right situation.

Different people have different reasons for having abortions. What about if the child is deformed at an early stage and would die anyway when born? What if the woman had been raped and a child had been made because of it? Some people are just so ill that they cannot keep their child otherwise they endanger their lives as well as others! What about if a 10 year old was pregnant after rape or something like that?

This is an arguement that could go on and on for centuries. Just Like Animal testing.

But I have noticed that on these answer sections, when people come on here to actually ask for proper advice, they get peoples feelings and get called heartless if they want to get rid of it. By calling them horrible names you haven't answered their question but wasted their time in answering. If people wanted to know other peoples feelings they would ask in the question. i mean if you do say all these things and they do listen then they will probably keep it. But for those people who are dead set on getting an abortion you will not change your mind with what you say.

So just answer questions properly.

Answer 4

I do think it is wrong for someone who has unprotected sex, willingly, and then thinks it is okay to have an abortion if they don't want a child; that is just wrong wrong wrong.

However, I do think that if someone was raped , OR if the mother's life is in danger because of the pregnancy then it should be the mother's decision to abort. I found out my Nana had to have an abortion because her very life was in danger by continuing with the pregnancy.

These are the ONLY cases I see that someone should be allowed to abort; otherwise it is just killing an innocent life so they can go be promiscuous and not have to pay the consequences of their actions. It is called ADOPTION.

Answer 5

first of all if i had the choice i would have never had the abortion on my baby. My parents told me i would be kicked out on the street. No one to turn to nowhere to go. I was under age and my parents would not let me keep my child. So for someone like u to call people like me horrible people for having them maybe u should think of other situations where it becomes something that needs to be done. Get over ur bad A** self. There isnt a day that goes by without me thinking about my baby.

Answer 6

Every situation is different. But, I regret every day that I did what I had done. And, I was raised to NEVER have an abortion, I did it all by myself, i had no help, i drove myself, paid for it myself, it was horrible, esp. since they did an US right before and I saw the baby on the screen moving. I had no help and would of been a disgrace to the family. My boyfiend at the time said he had protection and stupid me did not look to ck and guess what---bingo pregnant. I hid it and did not tell anyone and still no one knows now. But, it is was over 12 years ago now. I think of that child every day. Esp. when it took my husband and I a long time to get preg. i thought oh no, one night of fun can last my whole life and ruin me from having children now, some girls/boys don't think of the long term and only think of the here and now. I could go on and on but i have said enough and my eyes are welled up with tears right now. I at least know that he/she is in a wonderful place-HEAVEN-- that is the only thing that keeps me from breaking down every day.

Answer 7

OK i am not for or against abortion but you obviously are....you think that all women who have abortions do so because they forgot contraception, you are wrong, many women get pregnant despite contraception's....some women have abortions because they are living with domestic violence and could not bear to have a child in that environment, some women are raped and through that they conceive a child....


It is people that judge others so harshly that should look inside themselves and consider walking in someone Else's shoes...but then you are so pathetic and know little of the real world...get off the computer and live in the real world.

Answer 8

I completely agree with you Jackie. I mean if they really don't want to have babies, then stop having unprotected sex and if they do get pregnant there are loads of families out there that would love to give a baby a good home.

It's murder plain and simply. There has been a few questions on this site asking where they can get an abortion at 30 odd weeks. How can people even contemplate that. I mean they can feel the baby moving and know that it is a real person by then it is fully formed and just needs its organ to continue maturing and gain weight.

I just don't get people at all sometimes. Babies are extremely precious and should be respected beyond belief. They need their parents to give them everything because they are such small defenceless little beings.

Mother to a 14 month old and expecting my 2nd in Dec

Answer 9

On the one hand, there is the issue as you've stated- a woman's irresponsability now involves another individual. Yes, I agree- if you don't want to get pregnant, you shouldn't be having sex. We're human beings, capable of making choices, not animals- bound by instict to behave in certain ways.

On the other hand, some pregnancies are not by choice (rape, incest, other abuse). In these cases, is it fair to force a woman to endure 6-8 months of discomfort/pain and disfigurement because of something that wasn't her choice?

Generally, though there a TONS of other things that figure into a woman's choice in a situation like this (nod to the woman who's parents forced her to abort when she was a teen).

Personally, I'm "pro-choice"... let me define before you hurt yourself jumping to conclusions- I feel that choice is vital. I feel that the baby deserves just as many choices as the next guy, and in order for that to happen, the mother- no matter her age- must be the grown-up. Part of being an adult, being mature is being selfless. If a teenaged girl is going to choose to do something so grown-up as sex, then she needs to be grown-up enough to be willing to give up a little of herself for another.




An ideal compromise between the two sides would require higher technology than we currently have. If there was a way to remove a live fetus from the mother and maintain gestation artificially, then I suspect that both sides would be satisfied....

Answer 10

I agree completely. I I dont blame the people that have to do it to save their own lives but, I absolutely am so angry at the people who do it as a form of birth control. I knew so many girls in highschool and even now who are so used to getting abortions, it is sick! I think that if you are not ready to have a child - don't have sex! A baby is a living thing from the time it is made and killing it is disgusting. That is only my opinion and I respect other peoples opinions and I don't mean to offend anybody.