Self Esteem Help needed! - I am very tall and thin, yet I don't care to dress sexy at all?

Question

Do I need to be so hard on myself, feeling like I'm missing out by not showing myself off more? I just prefer to be in long pants or jeans mostly or if I do dress up it's black nylons, rather than bare legs. With everything I've mentioned, is it possible that this can be considered sexy, or am I just a loser?
Thanks!

Answer 1

Sexy is a state of mind that is generated by a sense of confidence that you are who you want to be.
A woman's cloths are often more sexy when they do not show off a ot of skin - but rather hint at what is there - and keeping them wanting more.

Answer 2

Sexy is what you exude, not just what you wear. That bit of info cannot be news to you.
Basically if you feel sexy, you could be wearing a sack and it'd look good (manner of speaking). I think you're not happy with the way you dress thoug, there's nothing wrong with it at all but I think you'd quite like something different, otherwise you wouldn't be feeling like you're missing out.

There are so so so many things on the highstreet to choose from, the days of sexy only meaning short skirt and heels are long gone. It means what you feel good in.

I say the only thing for you is to go out, dive into the shops and try things on, experiment. If you prefer trousers or black tights then there is tons of stuff this winter that is dead sexy but totally classy (look at 40's tailoring).

Answer 3

To me, I think sexy means oozing with confidence. Sexy doesn't mean showing off bare legs or low cut tops. U can still look sexy in jeans especially those with the right cut for u, and it makes ur behind look nice & sexy. It shows off your great figure, and since u're tall & thin, that's already very good as tight fitting jeans can show off ur long legs. Anyway, we should be thankful for what we have. And the best thing you can do is to show off & accentuate your best features.

Answer 4

hmm, well, sexiness is not only shown through your clothes, you have to act sexy to feel sexy, and to be sexy. maybe once in a while wear a skirt, but it doesnt have to be a daily thing. maybe just once a month or something. i mean, i love my jeans too, i wear them almost every day, but then every 1-2 weeks, i wear a skirt. i also wear other sexy things that arent skirts or revealing shirts. how about a tight pair of jeans ? a pair of pumps ? a hot new haircut ? its not about showing skin, its also about feeling sexy, acting sexy, and, sometimes, treating those guys out there to some sexy dressing too. dont worry.

Answer 5

I say you shouldn't worry about how sexy you seem to other people. If you feel good about yourself, and you're perfectly happy in whatever it is you're wearing, then there's no need to dress more flashy or in a way that is attention grabbing. Besides, the real thing that comes off as sexy to most people is confidence, and that comes from YOU, not your current ensemble. Do what makes you happy and makes you feel good about yourself. There's no reason to judge yourself by the way you dress. =)

Answer 6

Sex appeal is what's between your ears, not what's on your bod. If you are comfortable, then don't let the media images (or those who are slaves to them) work their subtle guilt on you. You are probably a normal intelligent good looking person who happens to have her own sense of style already. So smile. You're great the way you are!

Answer 7

You are not alone in this world.....

Don't deprive yourself of your self-worth!!

You only need a HELPING HAND,

just like anyone else out who does at any point of their lives!!

Look no further than where you are already at!!

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