2007-08-14 01:44:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there are several and I dont know that I can pick the #1 thing since they have all been horrible 1. he told me he had sex with a stripper who I hate (not like I know strippers but she makes herself well known to everyone) 2. He had sex with his best friend (coke addict guy) and some random whore while skiing, to boot then gave me HPV 3. lets his friends talk to me and treat me like ****, then sticks up for them and tells me I need to be nicer to them after they scream and yell at me while they are on coke. Hmmmm you decide. I will never forgive him for any of them and I'm considering divorce after 3 weeks and 5 years of putting up with this ****. Classic story of the nice girl from the nice town goes for the asshole and gets what's coming to her for a wrong decision.
2007-08-14 03:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst my man has done is hit me. We were fighting big time and there was a time in our life where we were both very physical with eachother. I forgave him becuase I myslef was as abusive as he was if not worse. Unforgivable is treatnig me like pure sh!t repeatedly and knowingly doing it with a smile on his face...also known as cheating. I could never forgive my husband for cheating, i would never forget and we in turn could never move on.
2007-08-14 09:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by jmalin04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unforgivable? Eventually, you have to forgive, but you never forget. Forgiveness is healthy, ABUSE-abuse is been the hardest thing for me to get past, even after almost 2 years....some days I have trouble forgiving second X for thinking it was ok and myself for letting it happen. I'm still completely F'd up. I don't trust men, and think all of them are selfish, at least all the ones that come to me and want something. I have a man in my life and we have a child, I can tell her all day long that I love her, but when I try to tell him I get this huge frog in my throat and get choked, literally. I'm afraid to give myself to another man. And that makes me hate my X for all that he did. Hate doesn't = forgiveness. Though I try and at times succeed and feel like I'm progressing at forgiveness.
And by the way I forgave my first X for cheating, cheating doesn't do the personal/psychological damage that physical, verbal, mental, emotional abuse does. It hurts, but it doesn't kill your self esteem like abuse does.
2007-08-14 09:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we split up and he was with another women for a year and she got pregnant and had a boy i forgave him because we werent together. unforgivable is he did it again while we were together and i left him (different woman)
2007-08-14 09:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by rhodeislandbornandraised 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people are pretty loose with trust issues---if you find you cannot trust your spouse--that's pretty hard to forgive, its not impossible but takes a lot of time.
Dont lie to your spouse--and adultry is probably a marriage sin that almost always ends in divorce or long-term unhappy marriage --mostly ends in divorce.
2007-08-14 09:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was going out with this guy who was 5 yrs older than m e (i was 17) and we would always hang out with alot of peple. well i was bestest friends this gurl Elly and we all hung out alot. Me and that guy had been dating for awhile he even came to idaho when i moved here. N E way i always thought Elly had a thing for him but i never said n e thang.
My Boyfriend got a job at taco bell and i heard she was always there after he got off. I confronted her but she sayd nothun. one day Elly skipped school (which she never does unless im with her) didnt think ne thang of it. Then like 2 days later my boyF goes missing all day from when i left to go to school at 8am till friggin midnite. He never told me what happened but i stuck with him.
That weekend i was hanging out with my friend tasha and she was all here read this and handed me a piece of paper. from Elly n sayd that one day she came over to my house while i was at school and her and my BF started making out and they had sex on my couch not only that but the day my BF went missing he was over at her house the whole time and now she thinks she's PREGANT by him. yea she was but she had a miscarrige I forgave him and we got back together because i loved him alot like a dummy. so ican see how guys cheat and people stay with them i think if you really love them u can work it out if you're wiling.
But he hit me on time and that is not acceptable. If a man hits you then NO its over. If sum one makes u that pissed off to wanna hit them uu need to get away from that person adn stay away ya know! well theres my story!!!
you're welcome LOL!
2007-08-14 09:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by peachytreezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not talk to me forever
it's unforgivable in itself but I decided to chase after that rainbow nonetheless
2007-08-14 09:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by essence_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on me while I was pregnant
2007-08-14 09:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by bris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋