plz help me?

Question

there's a guy in my class. he's always back of me, teasing.i try 2 ignore him a lot, but then he keeps on annoying me...i reli hate him. when i say 'shut up' he tries 2 do it the same way as i do...in the same accent as me. i don't know Hindi, but unfortunately its my 2nd lang and he's also an Hindi student. he tries 2 tease me with the same accent as me...and 'coz of that the whole class teases me...its sort of bcuming 2 much 4 me...i can't bear it any longer.
can any1 help me with this? can any1 tell me what i shd do if he does that again?

he doesn't lyk me...neither do i
if any1 of us does...its better committing suicide...than 2 luv him

and if i tell a single thing 2 him...he starts immitating that out...

...and this kind of behaviour has been going on 4 more than 1 year

Answer 1

Honey, the guy likes you. You must under 16 years? Guys do silly things to get your attention at that age. If you were to turn around and say out loud, "We'll talk about it after class", he'd be emabarassed and maybe stop. Otherwise, I'd ask the teacher to change your seat.

Answer 2

This is called unbearable harassment and there are laws against this all over the world.

The behaviour is at best childish. But even childish behaviour can be very distracting, so print this reply out and let him know that if he does not live you alone, he can end up in jail.

In UAS you can see a lawyer and get a restraining order against the person.

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Answer 3

the guy is bullying you, so bully back... I had a similar problem in 5th grade with this boy that I rode the bus with, so finally one day, I had enough and I stood up and yelled back at him and pointed out something on him that made him shut right up... The fact is that most people who bully other people are actually cowards... This guy probably gets picked on at home by older siblings or even his parents, so to feel tough (And also because he learns from example) he bullies other kids who he sees as weaker than himself... So the one true way to get him to stop is to make him get what he's giving. Just be a little braver and put him in his place! Going to the teachers and staff won't accomplish anything for you because to the boy who's bugging you will know that he's getting to you and things will only get worse for you. Best of luck!

Answer 4

It sounds like this is starting to effect your class learning. Speak with your teacher and ask her if she can move your seat to the farthest location away from him. If at all possible it would be great if you could swap two of your class periods. This way you wouldn't have to deal with him at all. He is immature and definitely has a lack of respect for you as well as himself. Apparently he has suffered some abuse himself and you know how the sang goes "Misery loves company". I know it hurts to have people make fun of or mock you. However, just try to totally ignore them and keep in mind that when people act like that they are showing their education level. If you know what I mean. Please remedy this situation before it gets out of control to the point where your schooling is messed up over it. Keep doing a good job in school and keep in mind this only teaches you how to handle all kinds of people. As there are definitley all kinds of people out there. Good luck!

Answer 5

If you can immitate him then stand up in class and do it, It will embaress him and if the teacher says some thing then you can exsplain what he has been doing to you.
He is bullying you and you can go to the prinsable and tell him and he will put a stop to it as it his job to do, as bullying is not tollerated in any school yard these days.
Good Luck
From James.

Answer 6

after all this is a good question . i like u ask one question to u y did u put this question in the section of relationships . exactly family and other relationships . if u had done it simply . then okay . try to adjust . think that he is little mad . don`t say to him that u like to avoid him or u likes him .
just start avoid him . adjust like that . never give any response . if the whole class smiles on u just avoid them also . if they are true friends they will ask u . then u must say to them and don`t try to say to u r teacher . just think that he is mad . and think that he is a small child . what will u do if small child bites u , just don`t care him . and u r friends can only help u .
before all u have to do one thing . just ask one thing yourself why am bothered of this guy .
make u mind stiff and broad . and say to urself that ur bold enough to solve this problem
u will succeed . have nice days in life .

Answer 7

most probably telling him u dont like him n his bevahior wont help.coz he already knows. the only treatment is try to b indifferent to all this bad bevahiour, its easy said than done, but its the only way.
dont be mean to him instead b nice if its genuine, u know gandhigiri does work, in time hell be ashamed of his behaviour n may be rest of the class too.
if he has an iota of goodness in him, which everyone does.

Answer 8

Tell your teacher and don't let him see he bothers you that is what he wants maybe there is something in his life that is bothering him and he can not deal with it talk to him tell him after school you can not do this any more that it hurt your feeling and try to be his friend and if that doesn't work be the better person walk away.. I know it is hard being a child is and it will get better.

Answer 9

you all ready know sweetie. ingore him to the fullest. i you dont say anything than he will more than likely leave you alone. dont allow him or anyone else for that matter bully you. if you feel that you have done all that you can do, speak with your teacher, counselor, principal, than if that doesnt work sweetie tell your mom so that she may go to the higher levels on your behalf. remember you are a beautiful little lady and there is nothing wrong with you and continue to be yourself. GodBless

Answer 10

If this has been going on for over a year,it is
high time you tell this guy to stop the nonsense.
If he still continues,warn him that you'll haul off and slap.That should show him you mean
business.