to get herslf preganant i think so she can trap the guy. n shes lost in depression yet she dont wanna talk to u about but shell eat herself to the size of a whale n shes short we went to a bbq she had a FAT plate of food we had alcohol n **** but on her way home she bought kebab n chips n finished it. how would u help her? i suggested goin gym together n things like that, stop eating mcdonalds n fast foods, but she aint hearing it she just sits in the pub after work flirts with who eva takes he fancy she tried it with two brothers n had it with her boss husband who just had a child with her. shes messed up n i dunno wot to do no more i feel to walk away but if ne thing happens to her il blame myself 4 not being there cos i known her 4 so long n we WERE SO tight. she moke weed which aint so bad in my opinion but she told me that shes been trying charlie i thnink that cocaine n i dunno wot to do tell her mum? but shell freek n i dnt wanna get involved wit family buisness.ne suggestions?
2007-08-13 21:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by lola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh. leave her. its her own fault
2007-08-13 21:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have had a boyfriend who ditched her and thats the reason she is trying to search some one but then she goes on eating since she is ashamed that she does not have a boyfriend and thus becomes glutton. They eat since they are worried and then they eat more since they think that they are eating more. I mean to say that they are trying to self pity themselves. Just tell her that you can understand that she does not have a boyfriend but then she should not go on pitying herself. Life is not of companionship with anybody but enjoying it with the moment. As she enjoys it she will get her wishes during the same. Tell her to stop thinking about boyfriends and also to stop pitying herself. That way she will come out of her problem.
2007-08-13 21:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Hannibal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is acting like a fool, and that you can not sit around and watch her ruin her life. If she gets mad, just move on to better friends. I know that you are concerned, but sometimes people do stupid things to get attention. You might want to also suggest that she get some therapy too!
2007-08-13 21:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel... u are in a very difficult situation...
tell her tt stuffing herself or destroying herself wundo her any gd... and trying to get pregnant to keep a guy by her side is a stupid idea... wat if the guy tell her tt the baby is not his than wat is she gonna do...??
i would slap her to her senses (i know it sound bad ) but she wun listen rite... if she is on drugs.. hide them from her ...dun let her get them.. .. tell her wat she is doing is so wrong...
keep on pestering her in the end i think she ll tell u ats on her mind.. i think she is running away from something.. she mite be facing prblms .. whc u are not aware...
but at the end of the day if u have tired ur Best to help her dun blame urself coz ... she was the 1 who didn want to face reality... u were helping but she wasnt helping herself
2007-08-13 21:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋