i told my b/f i was happy he still got with me even though what happen in my past.well he ended up bringing up a question from the past he asked me if me & my ex ever had oral sex & we did but i couldnt tell my b/f i was afraid he would be discusted cuz he has kissed me well i told my b/f i did had oral sex with my ex & his voice changed he sounded upset but after a while we got things cleared he felt bad for bringing it up because i ended up feeling bad.Any advice oh and i been with my b/f for 10 months
2007-08-13 21:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
me & my b/f cleared things out without arguing it was great to have him to talk to & i told him the truth bcuz i care about him.I had sex with my ex & the police got involve bcuz he was 18 but even though all that my b/f got with me he said he felt a connection...i feel so bad 7 wen ever things about my ex come up i become depress why do i feel duscusted that i had sex with him
2007-08-13 21:12:32 · update #1
You have to clear the fog about the past. If both of you want to get along, look up and be positive about it.Don't dish it if you cannot take it. This applies to both of you.
2007-08-17 19:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens between you and your other b/f is in the past and it is between you and them. Your b/f is just curious, and probably is just fishing to see if you would be willing to do that with him. He does not have any right to be upset about something that happened before you even got together with him. If he doesn't let it go, move on...you don't need the stress.
2007-08-14 04:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by peck3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your b/f head every day for a week, and he'll forget all about the other guy and whatever uppities he had about him. Its a guy thing. Then you'll stop being whatever about your ex, which you're probably only feeling because you like this guy. In any case, you gave your man head when he was your man, which makes you absolutely awesome. A-W-E-S-O-M-E.
2007-08-18 02:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...its apparent that he really cares
he could have made a big fuss over it
but he cares about you so much that he's willing to accept that what's done is done and that he's able to look past it!
you've got a great guy!
2007-08-14 04:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by awsumrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋