just pay for short term relationship? They probably treat you better and dont call you names...
2007-08-13 19:35:38 · 16 answers · asked by Jack Khoo 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I suspect that many men are looking for substance in a relationship as well as a good time in the bedroom.
Unfortunately, you'll never get much of a mental connection with a prostitute...unless you're Richard Gere and you HAPPEN to be remaking "Pretty Woman". And even then, there isn't much to it.
Relationships of length/depth take work, as does love. Giving AND taking is necessary on both sides for both people to remain happy.
If she's giving you a lot of problems that you're not interested in fixing/helping with, and is calling you names...it's really two options.
A. You haven't found the right one for you yet.
B. You aren't contributing to the relationship as much as she is/as much as you used to.
Either option is understandable - don't blame yourself completely, as it takes two. Look to see what it will take to fix it, or move on.
2007-08-13 19:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by unithoRn 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
A man shouldn't waste time with a trouble causing woman, And also you shouldn't go into a relationship for the short term because you will be lowering your standards. Now if you want to have a short term relationship you need to reduce it to just the dating standard to save yourself from heartbreak. Now keep in mind that courtship should with out a doubt be the happiest time of a relationship. Hope I helped.
2007-08-14 02:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't any reason why you have to settle for less than what you hold as your vision for love and a good relationship with someone someday. There is no honor or meaningfulness in buying friendship. I mean, you wouldn't pay for guys to be your friends, would you? The reason why we have friends of our own gender is because we understand them better. It takes time to learn to understand the opposite gender. Keep trying. Don't give up. Just keep your chin up and don't let people get you down.
2007-08-14 03:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on your attitude, there's no guarantee that any women will treat you better, and these short-term relationship women may also call you names as well. I bet a few people are going to call you names right now, while answering this question....
2007-08-14 02:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Its not really an 'either/or' as you state it...and the alternative choice does not need to be prostitution. I truly don't understand why men put up with the women who give them trouble...when there are many very good women out there. Look beyond the superficial and look into their hearts....you'll never go wrong...
2007-08-14 09:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women are horrible.
Some women are the best.
Most are in between.
Just like men.
2007-08-14 10:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what....? You just say your piece to that sort of woman and say good riddance to her then move on. You wanna find fast and cheap relationship...? Aha !!! very naughty, beware you might get H.I.V and be dead soon with AIDS.
So ? How you gonna feel good then, huh ?....Aha !!! there's no need to teach you all that stuff, right ? I believe you're smart enough to know how to manoeuvre your own boat....
2007-08-14 04:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by johan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont agree with prostitution but I agree that western women (from the US, UK or Australia) are a complete waste of time. They dont add anything to good to your life except maybe sex but most aren't even that good at it (but they say that's your fault not theirs). They are bitchy, demanding, entitlement whores and God help you if you get one pregnant or marry one.
It sucks to have to do this but you're only real option is to go to a country that isnt contaminated with feminism to find a woman that actually treats men better and with the respect you deserve. Japan, Russia, or the Ukraine are highly recommended.
2007-08-14 08:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You haven't found Mrs. Right. Men do the same thing.
2007-08-14 10:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are incompetant, and left to themselves would surely die. We may ***** a lot, but at least you eat regularly, and have clean clothes... I let my husband do laundry a couple times.. *shudder*
2007-08-14 10:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Goddess Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋