I mean I am in love with this one guy in this book. As many people are, Edward from "twilight". I have never loved anyone but him. He is so great. Does anyone want to be my Edward? JK
But is it that bad that I love him soooooooooooooooooooo much that it hurts? Am I a phyco?
2007-08-13 15:53:48 · 49 answers · asked by mari 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-08-13 15:59:01 · update #1
No is not past my bestime is just 8:04 pm
2007-08-13 16:04:23 · update #2
not at all. your not physco. you sound actually really cool. :)
Don't listen to the people who say you need counsling. They are a bunch of ignorant jerks who have nothing better to do but make fun of a person in love. Somewhere in the world Edward is looking for his dream girl and who knows the dream girl may be you! EVERY girl has a perfect dream guy we just need to find them. Edward may be a character but somewhere in the world there is one guy as charming and heroic as Edward and he might be Edwards double! good luck!
2007-08-13 17:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..as much as this is very odd, I'm not going to be insensitive and attack you like the others. If this really is true, then it's not a light matter and I would never make fun of you or call you a name.
I DO think that you need counselling though. Usually cases of, in simple terms, obsession and fixation like this are linked to deep physiological problems, perhaps steming back to a childhood incident with a father or father figure. To be obsessed with someone, especially to a point of pain, and ESPECIALLY when this person is fake is serious. I don't know what kind of character he is--but if he has problems [aka- abusive, drug addict, rapist, violent, etc] then that adds a whole new level of concern.
I think some key factors for figuring this out involve counselling FOR SURE, analysing what kind of character he is [criminal, hero, life saver, romantic, etc] and then characterise what you yearn for in him so much. Also, depending on how old you are, reach out to a counsellor or someone on a professional level because this definitely is not normal. I hope and pray the best for you!!
2007-08-13 16:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by CaliGirl760 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not bad, as long as you dont turn all guys that dont "live up to" the expectations of Edward down. I think once you meet someone in real life that you can fall in love with, your feelings for Edward will disappear. It is okay to try and find a guy with similar attributes as Edward, but dont be too disappointed when you find out there will be a lot of differences. Sadly, you will not find a real life Edward so he will have to remain in your fantasies. But dont worry, you will find someone else to love! Just give it time. And in the meantime have fun with your imagination!
2007-08-13 16:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Liking a guy from a book is ok like I love the character Landon & Noah from " A walk to remember" & "The note book". But its best for both us as women and the men in our life's if we don't fall in love with a fictional character. How can a man measure up to some one or something that isn't real.
2007-08-13 16:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by justtryingtohelp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not phyco, your just different like me, and this is our normal way of life, just face the fact that someday you'll have to find someone different, and as much as it pains me to say this, i can't love Jack forever! But who knows, you may find a guy in this world that reminds you of Edward, and i might find a man that reminds me of Jack. But as long as your alright loving Edward and happy, than your completely normal! And don't be ashamed of yourself either, it's just another trait that makes you unique!
2007-08-13 16:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by K'Dee xD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being "in love" with a fantasy guy is part of growing up. What you'll realize is that if you make up someone to be in love with (even if the author originally made him up) you'll keep changing him as to how you want him. Eventually, that's not healthy because you will put unrealistic expectations on the guys you do meet.
Also, true love is loving someone in spite of their faults - you don't have the opportunity to experience someone else's true faults if they're not real. I'm not saying you shouldn't have high expectations and should put up with bad behavior. But, just like you're human and you make mistakes - so do guys.
But, I don't think you're psycho - just open your mind and heart to getting to know people your own age :-)
2007-08-13 16:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't be in love with someone that isn't real. You are in love with the idea of this Edward fellow, because he is, in essense, just an idea. Is it strange? Yes. Is it wrong? No. Just make sure that when the real thing comes along you're not so wrapped up in your fantasy that you miss reality.
2007-08-13 16:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Just Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol. I love Edward too. Hes awesome. But I don't love him so much it hurts...I think you DO need to find yourself a real life love. Maybe someone with Edward-like qualities. =D
2007-08-13 15:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Smuckers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, no, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I know quite a few people who are in love with this fabled "Edward Cullen", and they're not psycho. Well, not TOO psycho. Anyways, I'd say don't sweat it.
As for me, I'm more of a Luna Lovegood fan...XD
2007-08-13 15:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, don't listen to all these people calling you nuts - you're ok. I have a major crush on a character in a book and I'm 32. Your case may be a little more OTT, though!
2007-08-13 16:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋