I am on the edge of depression My husband and I was having a heated conversation that turned physical It was really ugly I have pressed charges against him for his actions PLEASE DO NOT MISUNDERSTAND ME I AM NOT SORRY I HAVE DONE SO .............................BUT I AM STRESSING THE FACT WE ARE SEPARTED AND APART..................I AM TRULLY CONFUSED AND DISORINATED. hOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS SO I CAN HAVE PEACE AND MOVE ON???????????????
2007-08-13 14:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.Tricey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should see a therapist or even a church leader. You need someone to talk to and it wouldnt hurt to look into one of these for guidance and understanding of your actions.
2007-08-13 14:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to see that side of marriage.
It is all too common however.
I won't give my opinion in this matter, rather, I will tell you a story.
A few years ago, I was fishing with my oldest son, when we noticed not too far away, a man beating his wife senseless. They where partially secluded on the opposite side of the Bay, but when I finally made it around to them, she was a bloody pulp on the ground, yet he kept kicking her (I think he was trying to kill her.)
I intervened, and because he was drunk, he decided to take the rest of his aggressions out on me. We got into a pretty good fight. My son meanwhile was on my cell phone and calling the local authorities for help.
By the time help arrived, this guy was exhausted and laying next to his wife.
When all the questioning was done, I was charged with assault (later dropped) and the wife's story was that I attacked her husband, and then smacked her around for trying to get in between us.
Needless to say I had to hire a lawyer and months would pass. Charges where later dropped because apparently in another fit of anger, this man again beat his (stupidly loyal) wife to death.
Morale of the story, once your man starts with this behavior, 9 times out of 10 he will not stop. You need to do everything you can to distance yourself from such a person.
2007-08-14 13:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by theCATALYST 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar thing happen....you just need to always remind yourself that what you did is right and he has to live with his actions. if you were physical too and only he was arrested, well thats something you wont have peace over until you ask for forgiveness. sorry i dont know the whole situation....bu twhat he did was wrong and what you did to protect yourself was right, peace will come
2007-08-13 21:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by tip t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get an order of protection against him and go into a woman's shelter. He'll surely seek you out again, and you DO NOT want to be home with him stalking you,. He';s deranged, and the violence will continue.OR Escalate.
2007-08-13 21:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to put you first! Leave him before its too late. Call a friend or a shelter or a family member soon. Good luck!
2007-08-13 22:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by TABBY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! peace comes from above and you can recieve it today, all you have to do is ask Jesus to forgive you of all your sins, then ask Him to come into your heart, you will recieve His peace, and love, and more.....Jesus loves you
2007-08-13 22:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself 'what am i worth? what do i deserve? would i want my mother/sister/best friend/daughter to put up with this?'
2007-08-13 21:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by spike missing debra m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please LEAVE him NOW for YOUR sake!!!!
I'll pray for your well-being, do it for yourself! Respect yourself.
Leave him NOW!
2007-08-13 21:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋