I am married no kids and well me and my husband want a boat bad i am 30 i have a sugar daddy i see on the side 2000 a week my huband said its okay as long as i dont you know and well i dont. what you do you think about it
2007-08-13 14:07:57 · 21 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if everyone is happy then go for it!
2007-08-13 14:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by shaden 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thought: I felt as if you are using this guy you call your sugar daddy and second thought: at the same time your husband is using you just so you guys can get that boat. Once sugar daddy has given you enough money for the boat and you and your husband have bought it, I would say hubby will be filing for a divorce and trying to get the boat. Also, how long do you think sugar daddy is going to shell out 2k a week before he expects you to "do" what you say you aren't doing. You're playing with a double edged sword, one man on each side of the sword and either way it's going to cut your life into pieces. Yes, it is a bad thing, because you like it now, but in the end I see that double edged sword headed your way. If your husband doesn't mind you having a sugar daddy; what could he be doing on an equal or even worse level?
2007-08-15 18:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by swsAnswers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its a bad ideal. If you and your husband want a boat that bad there are few things the two of you need to do. 1) stop making bills and paid off some of them 2) get a part-time job 3) save for it 4) apply for a loan
do you really think this guy going to buy you a boat without you give it up to him? That is way too much money just give to you because you spending time talking to him, maybe a feel here and there, and bunch of sweet nothing share between the two of you. be two mature adults and work and save for the things that you want to enjoy your life better. that is why you married him and not this other guy (your sugar daddy).
2007-08-13 22:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is good or bad about this situation?
Fact is there are realities in our lives that we have to deal with. There is no one who is absolutely right or absolutely wrong.
From the way you have put it, it sounds bad. But what exactly is the relationship with the other guy? Maybe its a platonic type of love and relationship.
Only you need to understand and face your relationships. Only you know the appropriate bounds. Only you (maybe under some influence) to let anything happens.
Just remember that your decision and action will be the determining factor of your marriage. Not the cause and reason.
2007-08-13 21:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even respect yourself? how do YOU feel about the situation? what kind of a man/husband or whatever he is would let the woman he married and promised to be faithful to whore herself out for a lousy boat??
i think that you need to find respect for yourself, and get a different job. there are other ways to find $ to get material things, tell your hubs to get a 2nd job and quit being so down right disgusting.
you need to spend some time alone and take inventory on how you perceive yourself. do you value yourself at all??
2007-08-13 22:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by sumgirlIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, that is using someone for the wrong reasons. Your sugar daddy, if you are not giving him sex, is there something else that you are giving him? Why does he so happily give you money? Are you playing with his emotions? Because if that is the case, in my opinion it is completely wrong to use someone in that way. It is completely up to you, but it sounds like someone may get hurt in the end. There are other ways to raise the money for a boat, ways that will have less consequences- for everyone that is involved- in the end.
2007-08-15 16:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just joined today. I think you're a troll.
On the off chance that you aren't, and what you say is true, my guess is that you're either scamming the old man, or you're at most one step from being a prostitute. Did you tell your husband about EVERYTHING you do for the sugar daddy?
I bet you didn't.
2007-08-13 21:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why does this sound like the garden-variety of "Indecent Proposal"?
While I have to admit I frankly do not believe you and your "sugar daddy" "you know...don't", I think if your hubby's OK with you getting 2 thou a week to buy him a boat...go for it.
You've probably "earned" it..."don't-ing" you know....
2007-08-13 21:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Love of money will send you straight to hell you and your husband Good nor bad will last only what you do for Christ will last!
2007-08-13 21:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Tricey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth could your sugar daddy be paying you for? I'm confused!
2007-08-13 21:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Holy Matrimony is a promise to be faithful to a life partner.
Stop the adultery.
2007-08-13 21:12:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋