found ou that i was(berating her at times,drugs and alcohol)she just kept wanting my attention more?
2007-08-13 13:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She's co-dependant. Leave her be, and get yourself some treatment, then apologise and own up to your mistreatment of her.
2007-08-13 13:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Can we assume you've been at the sauce again?
If I get the gist of your rambling, you're asking why your lady-friend tolerates the fact that you behave poorly?
Perhaps she loves you and hopes that you will stop acting this way if she keeps going?
Perhaps she thinks she can save you from yourself?
1) Try not to berate her. She sounds quite tolerant, and if you are as bad as you make out, you probably need her more than she needs you.
2) Try to eliminate the drugs ('cos any illegal stuff will get you into a world of trouble).
3) Think about why you haven't left her. After all - she keeps taking your ****. You obviously feel guilty, but you haven't stopped either.
Are you in love, and just needing a few months off the chemicals?
Best of luck to you both.
2007-08-13 16:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Boris the Oval Banana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try posting your question again ~ in clearer (better) English an, with some attempt at looking (reading) as if you have tried ~ whilst not having someone trying to drag or push you away from your PC while you were trying to type.
(OK: a clue ~ 'which of you was it who was taking the drugs / alcohol' ?)
Sash.
2007-08-13 13:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in God´s name are you chuntering about?
2007-08-13 13:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're all mental - who can say?
2007-08-13 13:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋