ok first off im in the 20's so please no kid jokes, i just never felt like i loved someone before and i always wanted to be in love before i had sex, but now that i think i found love im scared shitless..... am i normal or just weird?
2007-08-13 12:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes it is normal to be afraid of love and sex for that matter. There could be a number of reasons why. You may be afraid of commitment, maybe your afraid of whats going to happen if you do fall in love. Mostly you could be afraid of getting hurt, but whats life without chances.
Many inexpierenced and experience people feel the same way about this topic. They are afraid of falling in love with the wrong person and spending all their wasted time with them. They are afraid of taking chances that could change their lives. It's mostly fears and what if's.
Take a chance! Breathe, go over why you love him and why he makes you happy, have an open communication with him. Theres absolutely nothing to lose, but everything to gain, whats life if your not bissfully in love.
And when your ready and comfortable and for sure in love, sex is a wonderful thing, nothing to be afraid of.
2007-08-13 12:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal to be afraid of being in love, people think they will not be who they really are or afraid of making mistakes by marriage if it comes to that. I was in love with my husband (anthony) and was still scared crapless when he asked me to marry him. Sex is very scary for the first time, and especially if ur in love with the person, you think am i fat, do i look gross, blah blah blah..all in all your a normal girly lol.
2007-08-13 12:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by anthony_wheeler23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal to be scared of love and sex. mostly it sounds like you are just afraid of commitment!! just talk to your bf or husband about how you fel and he will understand!!
2007-08-13 12:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by chelsey m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all normal..
2007-08-13 12:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by -Goddess- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋