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my husbadn advised me he has been seeing this female and he has been meeting up with her and he said he has done nothing with her except kiss her on the cheak he says that is not cheating and i should not be mad about it even though he is going behind my back and doing this i want to know what other people say?????????????please help on this one thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-13 11:25:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

If that is all he is doing then technically he isn't cheating....

....BUT he is walking on VERY THIN ICE!!!!!

Ask him how he feels about her...and you want THE TRUTH!!!!

If he is thinking about her in a romantic way then it is cheating.

Ask him....

If he is married to you why does he need to spend time alone with another woman? Why does he feel he needs this "OTHER" relationship?

Tell him if he needs to talk to someone, you are ready to listen - he doesn't need her and he's hurting you.

Hope you can work things out. Sounds like you two need to talk this through. Talk - not nag, not yell....

2007-08-13 11:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by mareer 3 · 3 0

He has alot of nerve to actually tell you it is not cheating. HELL YES IT DEFINITELY IS CHEATING. First of all he was sneaking behind your back with this other woman and he wants you to believe that he only kissed her on the cheek. How much more of a fool does he think you are? Would he like it if you were sneaking around meeting some guy, and kissing on the cheek? Tell him if it is so innocent you want to meet her for yourself. And if he wont do that find out where they meet and just show up. Whatever you decide don't sit back and take it.

2007-08-13 21:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 2 0

Sheesh....it's amazing what some guys can come up with to defend their cheating. He is cheating so don't let him continue to tell you otherwise. It is not appropriate for a married man to meet and kiss other women period. Put him on notice.

2007-08-13 18:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 3 0

if he wants to be "friends" with her, ask him where is you place in that picture ? Yes i have to give him a credit for telling you, but its not right anyways. Just do not confront her !!!! Its bad enough that he does it behind your back and most likely she knows it, therefore say no word to her. Be a better person unlike her. Just talk to him and if it will require him to choose between friend and wife, you got some thinking to do!

2007-08-13 19:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by GAYANA A 2 · 1 0

Ask him if this gives you permission to get a "guy" friend then.
He is cheating and trying to make it sound like he is not. it is a game he is trying to play on you.....
Personally I would leave if it were me and then see what he says.

2007-08-13 19:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 5 · 2 0

he is cheating...im sorry! =( a

t least he told you before he slept with her...which he will do...eventually if he hasnt already. Maybe he is just telling you this to "feel you out" and he has already done the deed, but wants to try and firgure out if you will leave him.

2007-08-13 18:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lonely Turkey 4 · 2 0

Definitely cheating. It may not be physical cheating as of yet, but it is emotional cheating.

2007-08-13 18:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by DC 3 · 1 0

I find lip stick on my husband's face all the time, it's his italian boss's mom, you know they have to do that whenever they see one another, it's a form of greeting, I would never get jealous of an 80 years old lady.

2007-08-13 18:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 0 2

Even if he isn't screwing her he is cheating emotionally which is just as bad. Get rid of him.

2007-08-13 22:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 2 0

Yes, He is cheating.

He admitted he is cheating emotionally, who knows what else.

2007-08-13 19:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by seeking 4 · 3 0

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