I just told my sons caseworker in no uncertain terms what I thought of their "plan" for me as pertains to my son. I also told them what I thought of their system...Should I have, perhaps, thought a little bit before speaking?
2007-08-13 09:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Son is kinda delinquent...runs away from home all the time...in trouble with the law...has been living with his Brother...He is the only one who can control him
2007-08-13 09:53:49 · update #1
Dumb Bunnies want me to have extensive mental Health work-up and take parenting classes and lots of other crap...at MY expense.
He's the last of 7 kids that all turned out just great!
2007-08-13 09:55:54 · update #2
Tell them all to go to hell. He's your son. Never take any kind of B.S. from petty bureaucrats.
2007-08-13 09:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Spade, Sam Spade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always have the right to speak your mind. I had an open case with CPS [false charges brought by a neighbor]. I told the caseworker what I thought of their plan and her personally, since we had a real conflict, I went to her supervisor and asked for a new c/w. even if you dont agree with the plan, you may have to follow it just to get them off your back
2007-08-13 09:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the best person to parent a child is the parent and would have plenty to say to a caseworker with a plan for me....I can be sure you were assertive without being rude...don't sweat it til you have to.
2007-08-13 09:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Madam Naka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to stand up for yourself and to request a new caseworker. Until you're in court, nothing that caesworker says is written in stone. With your other kids backing you up, I don't see how this can turn out in anyway unfavorably for you.
2007-08-13 10:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably so! It's hard to calm down sometimes when it comes to your child, maybe they will realize that and be kind. Maybe they get that all the time ! People like that are very "programmed" they put everyone in the same genre, unfortunately.
At this point, it might be damage control, so be cautious, and think before you speak.
Good Luck!
2007-08-13 09:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Carol K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, Always think before speaking.
2nd, If you and/or your son have a caseworker it's for your own good. They don't assign caseworkers just to screw with people.
3rd, If you don't like it, it's probably because you don't want yourself and/or your son to be held accountable for your/his actions.
When a person is protected from the natural consequence of there actions they are robbed of the lesson and the ability to grow and change.
2007-08-13 10:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by atomzer0 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That all depends on why your son has a case worker in the first place.
2007-08-13 09:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by happybidz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i a'm sorry for all what you are going throw with your son i hope every thing work out fine. i guest you were just mad of those people for treating you like crap. you have a whole lots of things on your mind. take easy and just be a good dad to your son. try to help him . and try working with them for you son sake,
2007-08-13 15:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Rosalinda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god bless you 7 kids...caseworker hasn't walked a mile in your shoes...I hate idealists that never went through the school of hard knocks
2007-08-13 10:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Dude..Vinster 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alot of that may depend on the caseworker
2007-08-13 09:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋