my sister introduced me to her friend and now he wants to go out with me. we both like each other. but i feel funny to date him because i feel we've been hitched up! is this stupid to feel? thanku.
2007-08-13 09:19:24 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if you like each other then do what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do. there was a girl who wanted me to meet her friend. when I met her it was " love at first sight. " asked her to marry me the day we met and She thought I was crazy. after 9 months of dating we were married and it lasted for 30 years before She passed away -- who knows what will happen so take a chance and " go for it. " good luck.
2007-08-13 09:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, If you get on with each other go for it. I think there are a lot of happy couples out there that have been "hitched up" don't miss out on a good thing. And if you get married your sister can be your chief bridesmaid :)
2007-08-13 09:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, you should however try to separate your feelings. Perhaps part of you feels you have to like him because a family member who is dear to you introduced you to him, but if he's that special she would of hooked herself. \then par of you probably don't want to hear a lecture from your sister as to WHAT!!! You don't like him, What's wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you, being friends is the best way for both of you to get to know each other. No need to rush and get hurt or even hurt someone.
Best of luck
The Wise One
2007-08-13 09:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by shawn/diane m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its not stupid to feel, feelings are our emotions hense communication . Pride shows its head in many different forms. Is this the only reason or do you have any other reservations? Only you know how you feel and nobody can tell you the right or wrong answer. Have a heart2heart with your self. Give yourself every con you can think of going out with him and next to it, lay down every pro (pro's&con's)
This should give you some clarity.
Hope this helps sweet.
Best of luck
Marie
2007-08-13 09:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by marie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't seem stupid at all. It seems like your sister's plan was to match you guys up anyways. It's a good idea to hook up since the feeling is mutual. =) You should be happy and not make a big deal out of it. Being matched up is good sometimes. Then you can blame your sister if something goes wrong. lol. jk! =)
2007-08-13 09:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it aint stupid may be u 2 are ment to be whats the harm in trying at the end of the day i have had one of my brothers mates after me for ages and we are together still now it has been 11months now and now i had wished id have done before so go for it like i said there is no harm in trying every one learns from there mistakes xxxx
2007-08-13 09:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with being "hitched up". Sometimes finding someone on your own doesn't work out as well as someone else interceding. Give it a try, no one says you have to marry the guy.
2007-08-13 09:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES this is a date and THIS IS A VERY VERY GOOD DATE, Y u're nervous??? i mean i know what this is like but u're gonna be ok after sum while just come across casual and try to ask him question which lead U to the list of hiz likes and dislikes... good luck
2016-05-17 04:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on, do it, whats the harm, doesn't have to be a great big love affair. See how you feel after a couple of dates. Good luck.
2007-08-13 09:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by jo jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, go out with him and see if you have fun together. It is normal to feel kinda weird about set ups like this, but you will get over it as soon as you go out with him. Try it! You don't have do go out with him more than once, after all, and you might have fun.
2007-08-13 09:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋