is this a weakness about humanity?
an example from the animal kingdom:
a critically wounded animal is deserted by the pack and outcasted by other animals because there is no way it will survive. no way back..
do you see this trait in humanity? if so whats your opinion on this behaviour displayed by your fellow man and woman?
im alright jack...your not....its not my problem...
2007-08-13 08:50:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Not really, I haven't abandoned anyone when the chips were down and I don't believe anyone turned from me either. Actually, when life gets hard that's when my friends and family come full force. Noone need be alone in times of hardship or stress, all you have to do is reach out. I tend to think that people just think everyone has turned against them, because if you reached out to a friend or family member and said I am hurting I am stressed or life is overwhelming...or I need you..I don't think they will say screw you as we often tend to project what one will say or do and don't bother to reach out instead sort of punish them for not reading our minds. If you don't want to be alone or are hurt then you need to speak out and let people know so help can become available to you.
2007-08-13 09:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Greenie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have you been smoking? There are always persons close to lend a hand to a struggling human. Sure I have seen the attitude that you speak of but its been few and far between. Your neighborhood must suck and your friends worse if this is all that you see. I have been to many different parts of the world and have yet to see this as a common thing. Better yet, In 1992-94 I was in Amsterdam, Germany, China and England. Except for the impoverished areas I saw no sign of this anywhere. 4 hours after arriving in China I fell from a stage scaffolding and ended my stay there in short period with a broken ankle. So many people were trying to help me that they were in each others way. So in answer to your question...No I do not see this as a common trait in humanity.
2007-08-13 16:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you're referring to is that people often get caught up in their own lives and may not notice if someone is having trouble without it being brought to their attention. Many people feel that they have to be polite and not bring up things that are unpleasant, so how would others know that they need help when there's so much to think about every day?
I think that 99 times out of 100, the reason that people feel isolated and alone is that they're not reaching out to others that can help them--either because they see it as a sign of weakness, or because they're insecure and don't believe they deserve the help. However, everyone knows what it's like to go through difficult times, will empathize with people who approach them, and help them if they can. You would be surprised how even reaching out to minor acquaintances--or sometimes even complete strangers--can be rewarding.
2007-08-13 16:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Acadia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that humans are highly dependent on other humans. When we need food, of course we go to animals and the earth, but otherwise we rely very much on each other. I think that this is an adaptation, and as such it isn't exactly a weakness. Because there are so many humans around it is easier to go to them than to be entirely independent.
2007-08-13 16:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with that at all. Friends, family, fellow employees and professionals such as ministers, Doctors, Nurses are available if you look for them.
You thought process becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. You expect nothing because you feel you are unworthy of support. Therefore you fail to find support and that is what you are wanting.
Change your view of life and you will find plenty of support from others.
2007-08-13 16:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by barrettins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a know fact that until you are strong yourself you can not help others. Those that try just creat 2 people who are in trouble instead of one. If you have no options sure fight it out together, maybe the 2 of you can make it.
Would I help you pay a bill if it will short me on paying mine? NO
Will I give you a ride off the highway when people get killed by fake victims? NO
More than ever, we just can't help the weak, they must learn to survive themselves. Overcoming in itself strenghtens you.
2007-08-13 17:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by a2z_alterego 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever heard of foot prints in the sand?
This man was walking the beach of life, behind him was two sets of tracks and then one and then two again. The man begins to pray asking the Lord why he left him to walk alone. The Lord's reply is when you see one track I am carrying you.
So you see you are never alone even when do know he is there!!!
2007-08-13 18:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes the majority is of the kind but u can't blame the whole humanity as thier r many ppl arroun us who realy take care of us like our families........
2007-08-13 16:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone but true friends that is how you find out who they are
2007-08-13 15:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋