I have met a wonderful man online in Yahoo checkers - talked for a long time - over few months. When I told him I was leaving - he said it was a pity and that hes bothered by me leaving. He wanted my email - which I have him and he emailed me the next morning.
Today I went into Yahoo checkers (under anonymous ID) - and hes starting fights with people in the lobby and also inviting girls he knows to his table to play.
It seems to me that he wants closeness with someone. what do u guys think?
Sorry about ranting - but I would love to know whats going on with him. Is he missing me?
im 27. Hes 28
2007-08-13 07:35:08 · 23 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
sounds like hes trapped in a computer and cant get out to get a life
2007-08-13 07:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by noruleschris 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
1. hope your not a guy
2. There's a Yahoo checkers?
3.If he is starting fights online not for fun it tells me that he not a strong guy because he would start a fight online if he could beat some one up in real life.
4. He's probably like 14 years old
5. He probably has never gotten a chick in his life because he is trying to pick one up online even worse Yahoo, and worse than that on checkers.
6. How do you know its a guy?
7. Ditch him get someone else thats not 14 skinny and weak a girl and weird.
2007-08-13 11:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by eggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is quite possible he could be missing you. But really, I don't think you should bother at this stage since you all have not even spoken on the phone or met yet. It's not worth getting worried about anything at this stage. He is single, he is free to do what he likes, right. He isn't committed to you.
You can stay in touch with him, and gauge his character and the vibe you get and then take it from there. Ofcourse, always be cautious, until you fully know and trust a person.
From the sound of it, he doesn't sound very mature. That's the feeling I get from what you have told.
2007-08-13 08:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the stupidest things I've ever read. You met on Yahoo checkers ? He's 28 and he's starting fights with people on YAHOO CHECKERS ? Morons.
2007-08-13 07:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Slipknot 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes to flirt with women and it boosted his ego to have a regular to chat to. he now feels that he's losing that by u leaving. as for the fighting in the lobby there could be a number of reasons.
1, he could be sat in front of the computer drunk.
2, his people skills arent that great ( its easy to start fights with cyber people.)
3, he was like that before you started chatting with him and now he doesnt put on a show.
4, or all of the above.
he could also have real life issues that he cant deal with so he deals with them through a computer.
but who knows computers do strange things to men :P
2007-08-13 07:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not hate you...he hates himself. cheating is a fashion for him to spice up his very own decreased self esteem, the comparable way verbally or bodily abusing you is. he's indignant at himself and additionally thinks much less of you for putting up with it even however he expects you to. he's selfish, self widespread, and has no empathy or compassion for others. He could SAY he loves you, however the flaws you point out are ALL risky procedures of expressing "love". His mom will look after him to the ends of the earth and justify his habit further permitting him to proceed appearing the way he does. She likely performed a function interior the way he feels approximately himself. Do your self a prefer and love your self for you. you understand what a astounding guy or woman you're...do no longer enable HIM dictate that for you. You deserve extra advantageous!! Take your little ones out of the somewhat poisonous situation you're in. they're all bearing the brunt of the outcomes, the comparable as you. seek for counseling in case you like it for you and the little ones. he can no longer replace except he himself needs to. in spite of if he does, it does not advise you will nevertheless decide to be with him. in line with threat he could make himself a extra robust guy or woman for him. That should not be your situation anymore. concentration on making your self a extra robust guy or woman...for YOU and your little ones. the 1st step is one you have already got gained the capability to do...leaving!! attempt to no longer situation approximately his motivations or how or why he does issues. that's going to basically confuse the variety you sense approximately issues as you attempt to justify his behaviors or excuse them even whilst there is not any excuse. sturdy success and super HUGS!!
2016-10-10 03:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by jochim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just leaving Yahoo! Checkers. You two can still keep in contact right..?
2007-08-13 07:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I taught my kids from when they were five that NO-ONE on the internet is who they seem. Look at all of us answering here. All hiding behind avatars & privacy. Keep it an online friendship. Anything more is asking for trouble.
2007-08-13 07:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Merovingian 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Life gets weirder. Now I do believe that people fall in love in computer world. I got to get out of here!
2007-08-14 01:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats checkers - is it a bit like draughts?
2007-08-13 07:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋