How many of you here would be caught going out with a man who has a ..?

Question

fat or jiggly stomach or one that has a "thang" smaller than a standard sausage? I mean honestly... that is if you're not desperate. If you are desperate then that is understable. What do you think?

rani, that's nice if it works for you but with me that kind of thing will not work because I want some substance in my relationships so the general picture of that relationship has to be good. That's me. I won't settle for less, however shallow that might look because at the end of the day it's me and the guy. Society never comes to my bedroom. Thank you.

Thanks for all your answers but nothing you say will make me change my mind on this issue. A relationship has to work for me in every sense of the word. We should be focusing mainly on our partner at all times and not fantasizing aboutrsome body else. I'm not saying everybody does it but many do. Let's stay in reality please.

Caramel Macchiato, I'm in total agreement with you.

And that's good "T4" but I have to describe the things that would bring me to the verge of frustration in a relationship. Sex plays a very big part - if not the biggest - in a relationship and can anyone tell me what I'm supposed to do if I get turned off by something? Tell me because i don't know. Am I then supposed to live in a platonic relationship? And why me when the rest aren't? This is where my selfishness begins, with me making clear what I expect of a partner if we are to live in a relationship that's not dead. That's all.

Answer 1

Well, it depends.....I would date a guy with a Fat or Jiggly stomach depending on if I really liked him or if it was something else that might turn me on about him but not a "thang" smaller than a standard sausage because a standard sausage is kinda small for me. LoL... I'm a sistah so I'm used to bigger sausages on my men. "If you know what I mean".

Now as for the people who answered your question and saying you're shallow, I don't find that being shallow at all. I just think you're expressing your opinion and preference. If you don't like big tummys or small thangs then that's called a preference and you're entitled to that.

Anyways, don't men always express what they like or dislike on women when half the time they look like crap and shouldn't even be entitled to have a choice?

Answer 2

I was intrigued to where this question was going. I see now it is another shallow dating based on looks alone question (although I suppose the small thang could be perceived as a downer depending on how important you view that type of thing). You have to realize that if a guy has a good nature and is kind then sometimes it out ways the imperfections. The same goes for a woman. If you ask questions like this though you will gain the guys who are as shallow as you and look for the women with large breasts and a body fat content of lower than 15 per cent. I'd personally rather have a woman that is kind and caring and that will accept me in 20 years when I put on a bit of weight. Each to their own though.

Answer 3

Well, I don't know about the "thang" thing because that doesn't normally show as the guy goes out and about in his daily world. Who knows, maybe Bill Gates or Donald Trump have an undersized "thang", if you get my drift. LOLOL

Now, the fat jiggly stomach is a whole different issue because outward appearances DO say something about the "inner person". It tells me about a guy like that, that he has a serious "self control" problem; that he's a food addict; that he seems to lack even one shred of real concern about his health and fitness level, and overall, he has a "slob mentality". Sorrreeeeee, but a guy like this I don't need, so I'd pass him along to the "desperate gal".

Answer 4

Absolutely right. The first thing you do when you meet a man is pull his pants off and grab a yard stick. If he isn't big enough to do serious internal damage then kick him to the curb. Because television has told us that real men have 24 inch penises. If they don't then they must just not care enough to buy the pills and that says something about a man thats far more important then anything he could say for himself.

I do think the argument that we are breeding for idiocy may have some merit.

Answer 5

The Mona Lisas' smile was not painted with an emulsion brush. Just a lot of time and attention to detail.

Answer 6

who cares, we all get jiggly one day. Also what is more important to you is'nt to other people. I put my standards on much more than a little thang as you put it. You'll grow up one day and realize that what other people think is'nt that important in life. Hope it's soon.

Answer 7

I think this must be directed towards women. I haven't had any problems according to your questions. T4

Answer 8

my man has a tummy! i love it! more to hug... about the whole sausage thing. i have no clue! havent done anything yet. whats wrong with a little tummy? why do you say only desperate women get men like that? youre wrong.

Answer 9

I think you need to ask the question again using the English language.
Whats wrong with having a so called fat stomach? we cant all be perfect, i reckon you should look beyond the physical appearance, its the personality that counts.

Answer 10

there is a old saying"never judge a book by it's cover", it not very tolerant to judge a man by his gut or penis, God made us "as is"in his plan to be what we are.and what is a standard sausage?