ok so me and mike were going out for about 7 months and everything was fine, he acted like nothing was wrong and then a week later he says hes not happy anymore and he breaks up with me. everybody told me to give it some time and he will come back, but that never happened. he then stopped talking to me because for some reason he thought i cheated on him with my ex but it wasnt true at all! now he hates me because he found out things that have happened before we were together and telling me that i lied to him, but i didnt because he never asked me!!! so now hes back with his ex and i dont know what to do because i did nothing wrong and i really want him back!!! what do i do!!
2007-08-13 07:04:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not to mention this girl is best friends with my sister!
2007-08-13 07:14:01 · update #1
Don't do anything. Do you really want to be with a guy who dumps you because he won't listen to you, doesn't trust you, and then gets together with another girl? Find somebody more worthy.
2007-08-13 07:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a really big problem there honey if you will keep on telling yourself you want him back, sometimes you have to understand that not everything that we like is the best deal we can have. things happen for a reason, you might not know it by now but soon you'll do, that is a principle stated from a religious type of mind. but on a mind of a practical and mature being, you should at least consider that a relationship is not just to be work on with one party, it takes two to tango you know, and since your partner is not cooperative anymore for some reason, don't you think you should start to look for another partner to prosper the affair. and more so, i don;t think that your guy loves you, cause if he does why and where on earth did he give you up just like that. don't you want to love a person who loves you in return. grow up and move on. stop thinking about it and move on, for all you know maybe he is just making it a escape goat for his intents of bringing her ex back to his arms and put all the blame not to mention the guilt on you.
2007-08-13 07:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You need to grow up, let him go, and find a guy that is interested. For that matter, why would you even want a guy that called you a liar and didn't trust you and dumped you for no reason? You will be doing yourself a big favor to move on. Stay away from him, give yourself some time, and keep yourself busy. You'll get over him, and you'll be a better person for it. It happens to everyone. Good luck!
2007-08-13 07:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. He dumped you for whatever chick hes with now, and I can promise that from my own experience. My ex loved me at lunch, then a few hours later said "I haven't loved you for 6 months".
I got over it, and have myself a perfect boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. Trust me, with a guy that acts like that, you're better off without him.
2007-08-13 07:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the loser doesn't trust you. Move on and find some healthy outlets for your emotions until you feel ready to date again. This guy obviously isn't mature enough to be in a relationship with anyone.
2007-08-13 07:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Momma Gaga 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to forget about him. Think about it he has serious trust issue and do your really want some one in your life that is going to act like that. He is not the right one for you. Even if you think that he is right now there are much better in the sea.
2007-08-13 07:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Karma M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you were holding back the truth from him. Not because your not saying something means that your being honest. You had your chance with him. Let him go.
2007-08-13 07:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by SunnySideUp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone totally new, and forget about him, I know easier said than done, but you may gain a new friendship. Besides, if he couldn't let go of your past, he's not the right one for you.
2007-08-13 07:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Janice Dickinsons' Shrink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, your opportunity is over, at least for now...move on. If they break up and you are single at the time, then perhaps you can try again.
2007-08-13 07:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont get him back if he already has a new gf. If you love him enough you will let him be happy and move on.
2007-08-13 07:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♥just~me♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋