I think its fairly common for straight women to sometimes fantasize about being with a woman. Or some women fantasize about a three some with another woman but would never be in for it in real life.
If you are straight and do this are you passive in your fantasy or are you the aggressive one?
Do straight men ever fantasize about other men? Or a three some with another man and woman? Or is that just too horrifying for them?
I know most straight men are outraged if you tell them you think they are gay. Does this kind of fear restrict their fantasies too?
2007-08-13 06:21:41 · 13 answers · asked by isotope2007 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
so RV your attack is interesting, ever heard the expressions "me thinketh thou doth protest too much"? The guys I know who have vehemently denied being gay all turned out to be gay and hating themselves for it
2007-08-13 06:54:37 · update #1
I think article greatly sums up the issue:
http://jackinworld.com/library/articles/strfant.html
2007-08-13 06:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many straight men have homoerotic dreams, but because of the connotations no one really talks about them. It is interesting the various double standards and inconsistencies that arise.
Crossdressing in public is wrong for men, but OK for women; I've seen uniforms for women that are decidedly male (ties, vest, etc.). However, if you're an artist, esp. the lead singer in a rock band, crossdress away (Kurt Cobain, Ozzy, Queens of the Stone Age, etc.).
In high school, straight guys insult each other by yelling "f@g" yet try to impress OTHER GUYS by talking about how big their unit is.
And why go out of your way to the gay bar if you're only going to shout insults out the window? Obviously, you're there for attention...
2007-08-13 07:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have heard from some of my straight friends that they do sometimes fantasize about doing things with the same sex, but they would absolutely never consider doing it in real life. It is like a taboo for them.
2007-08-13 06:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by dannyboy 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do. They are just afraid to act on it because as little boys they were told that if they did do it they would "catch it" and it would apparently be so fantastically great that couldn't stop it ! Which is untrue of course, but in the olden days, adults thought this would keep ALL the kids straight. Apparently it didn't work.
2007-08-13 06:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mezmarelda 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No straight man fantasizes about being with a man.
Some "straight" men do. Let me explain. A man could "act" straight, tell people he is straight, marry a woman, have kids and even watch straight porn but still be gay/bi. It's called denial. Fantasizes are a place where his sexual desires can freely roam.
2007-08-13 06:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
No never. This claim is made only to make homosexuality look like it's a normal choice.
Straight men never think about gay sex because they have a self esteem that prevents them for submitting to another’s desire. Straight men would rather be an equal among his peers than to submit to the carnal desires of some.
2007-08-13 06:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I have straight guy freinds that have admitted they have fantasized about another man before
2007-08-13 06:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From my understanding and from talking to my str8 male friends, every man at some point has had some fantasy, encounter, or thought of same gender sex.
I know I do... all the time. LOL
2007-08-13 06:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by BlazInAZ 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
my straight buddy has told me before that he has
2007-08-13 06:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I bet a lot do.
2007-08-13 06:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋