i'm 18 and I just don't like girls anymore. I would like to got out with another guy, but I don't know how to approach anyone. I'm afraid if I do like a guy he might reject me and tell everyone I like guys.
2007-08-13 05:31:44 · 9 answers · asked by ben 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, let's look at a couple of things first -- you note that you don't like girls ANYMORE. Did you ever? Or did you just go out with them because you were supposed to?
Does gay porn turn you on (make you get a h*rd *n)?
When you masturbate -- do you think about girls naked or guys naked?
If girls really didn't turn you to start with and guys did, and if seeing naked guys and guys having sex arouses you, and that is what you prefer to think about when you masturbate -- then you are gay. If you think about both, you are bi. If you really only think about girls but are angry about the way they treat you, then you are straight, just in a snit.
Now, if you are gay (it isn't a matter of thinking really, you know what you are, you just have to allow yourself to be honest, no matter what it is) then you can do a number of things -- look online in your area, go to a local club if there is one (send me an email if you want and I'll look up your area and see what's there -- you will have to tell me the nearest city ), or just make friends with lots of males (hobbies are good for that, so is school) and let yourself get closer to them. That takes longer, but you will find someone in fairly short order I suspect.
Email me if you need to talk.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-08-13 05:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much the same way you would approach anybody, starting off as friends, talking about common interests, saying hello, sharing a laugh.... then trusting your gay-dar to kick in :) I know once this guy asked me to lunch and acting on a hunch, I said, "how about dinner instead?" Needless to say what we did that night!
2016-04-01 09:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll help you. IM me. (kidding) lol
Just be careful, you are still developing your guy-dar. Find some publications/magazines, find out where the gay friendly spots are in your town and just go walk around. He may come to you. Not clubs necessarily; gyms, restaurants, malls, bookstores, parks. Just be careful.
2007-08-13 07:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by BlazInAZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which do you want more? Your privacy or another person in your life? When you make that decision, everything else will fall into place.
2007-08-13 05:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by realangst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a myspace page there are a lot of gay men and women up there and they might be a lot of them in your town
2007-08-13 05:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by rainbow stud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youre white you should definitely stay gay and keep your hands off white girls.
2007-08-13 05:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably the easiest way is to get him drunk first. Alcohol reduces peoples inhibitions, and helps to enable them to do things they wouldn't normally do.
2007-08-13 05:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me too.. I have the same problem.. I hope to find answers in your question ...
2007-08-13 05:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful
start Slow
"how you Doin?"
2007-08-13 05:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋