k well ive liked this one guy for a long time and we finally found a way to tell each other that we both hav the same feelings at the end of the school year now he is gonna go to HS while im a year younger stayin at the same school but wen i am in HS we still wnt go to the same one cus hes goin to a private one out of town! well we said to each other at the end of school that we will hang out over the summer and get to know each other then see wat goes from there we hav already went to the movies 3 times and hav kissed and hugged and stuff like that as if we were goin out but theres a catch he plays 3 different sports and barely has time for anything which is the reason y summer is almost over and we hav only hung out 2 times during the summer and once during the end of school we barely even tlk anymore and wen we do im the one to call him i like him so much but now im even wonderin if he really liked me to begin with or if he just expected a summer fling! wat do u think i should do?
2007-08-13 04:51:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also we were supposed to hang out yesterday but he never called me back so i was left by the phone hopin he would call how pitiful of me lol =( well pls i need help should i just wait til he calls me? or wat?
2007-08-13 04:52:50 · update #1
call him and ask y he didnt call you when he didnt show.
Cassie O.,
2007-08-13 04:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sit by the phone for any guy. Go out and have fun, have a life of your own. Guys don't wait by the phone for you. If he likes you then he will call. Boys at that age are more into having fun, and doing things with friends, I think it's over,schools starting find someone else to crush on. Sorry But it TRUE!
2007-08-13 12:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by melissa g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call but try to keep yourself busy. Pick out some outfits for the first week of school, etc. Be prepared that he may not call though. His life is going to be incredibly busy high school is different from middle school. He may not have intended for it to just be a summer fling but it may have turned out that way :(
2007-08-13 11:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is too busy to maintain a relationship, even if he does care about you.
Better for you to go back to school and get heavily involved with your schoolwork and maybe even think about joining a club or playing a sport yourself.
2007-08-13 11:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are far too young to worry about whether this is "the real thing". Enjoy your life and if your paths cross, enjoy that as it happens, but certainly don't wait for it.
2007-08-13 11:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be just a fling. You want to be able to have your freedom on the first day of school.
2007-08-13 11:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Theres lots of othe fish in th sea!!!
I no how you feel, but you'll find a new guy!!! I say let it be a fling!!I no you like him, and i no its hard, but you'll find someone else, maybe someone better!!
Best of Luck! And dont blame yourself!
2007-08-13 12:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to call. never call first. if he doesn't make time for you because of his busy schedule, then he's not worth it. if he's into you, then he would find time to spend with you. he doesn't seem to be into you anymore. you should move on. you should find someone who actually has time for you, who makes time to be with you. you deserve so much better than him.
2007-08-13 12:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by star58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a smmer fling on his part
2007-08-13 11:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, follow your heart=)
2007-08-13 11:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by HansThane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋