In a relationship, why does there have to be one who wants to control the whole picture all the time?

Question

Doesn't this get boring when it involves anything from where to go on a vacation to what kind of sex you have and what time and place you have it.?

Answer 1

In answer, some people are natural control freaks, and some are borne followers. The bad thing is that when you let a control freak get the upper hand you are pretty much done for. If this isn't the sort of relationship you want then you have a couple of options. You can say NO to the control freak and ride out the fight that is SURE to follow or you can continue to do as they say like you have done in the past. People say that a relationship is 50/50,,,,no so. A true relationship is
100/100. How can it be complete if no one is giving 100 per-cent?

Answer 2

First off your first assumption is wrong! One person does NOT have to control the entire relationship all the time. There can be a very often are balances among couples. If this is how you are perceiving things, you need a new perceptive. You might attracting controlling individuals. Were your parents controlling? Maybe you need a little counseling to get you over this hump so you can find people who aren't control freaks. There must be some reason. Maybe it is your location, move if you have to so you can meet different kinds of people.
I would say it would get boring...unless you like being controlled and not having choices..some people do like that, you know.
Broaden your horizons!!! Best wishes!