uhm... how exactly do you get rid of the pain?
2007-08-13 00:13:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
how exaclty do you get rid of the pain? im her first by the way
2007-08-13 00:15:32 · update #1
kwit doing it wid ur gf.
if you cared about her you obviously wouldn't want to see her in pain now would you?
2007-08-13 00:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by sebastian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason it hurts is because your gf is not relaxed enough. You need to take the time to get her aroused first, it's called foreplay and young guys seem to skip it completely and it is such an important part. All the things the two of you used to do before you started having sex, do them still and THEN have intercourse.
2007-08-13 07:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by j81s79j06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cause of pain might probably be the lack of lubrication.
if your gf doesnt have enough natural lubricant which her body produces, then it would be painful for her.
you can use a water-based lube like KY jelly. dont use oil-bases lubricants.
2007-08-13 07:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by NervousWreck 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Also do you use lubricant? Maybe go slower till he body gets used to you being there. If she is relaxed and not nervous her muscles will be more receptive and less tense.
2007-08-13 07:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it takes more than 15 times.it'll go away just dont feel like it's 4ever.blive me i was like that till i ot preg. the doc tolled me the same thing too.
2007-08-13 07:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by bita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get her exicted. Foreplay. Make sure she is nice and wet.
2007-08-13 08:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by radkashannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not strange. i was my g/f's first too way back when and she was in pain for more then a few times. plus sometimes it will hurt her if its been awhile in between times. just means were hung like horses is all. LOL
2007-08-13 07:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by TheMadChemist 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She should see a gynecologist; there may be a physical problem.
2007-08-13 07:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn how to spell before it won't hurt her anymore.
2007-08-13 07:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Cutthroat Lars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a tube of lube.
2007-08-13 07:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋