I am 20 , masturbating twice a week , since from my 13/14 and Whenever I stop masturbating and thinking of being a good & neat guy without sexy thoughts , I used to wet my innerwears in some night with some glamorous dreams.....My sperms are coming out automatically without even touching it....But it's causing uneasiness to me ....I want to stop it...Can anybody give me the things necessary ?
2007-08-12 23:28:37 · 13 answers · asked by Mahe 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Some people here have gotten close, but not there yet. First and foremost you need to understand why you get wet dreams. It is your body's way of releasing the sexual tension and mainly sperm that is built up in your testes. The easiest way this is done is through simple masturbation. The more you release, the less likely your are to have wet dreams. Once you stop releasing, either by masturbation or another means such as sex, you start to build up your sperm reserve again. This is due to the fact that you are continually making sperm and since you are at a time when your hormones and everything else is peaking, you may be making more than normal. You could just be one of us lucky guys that always seems to be in overproduction in this area. Secondly you need to understand that releasing your pent up sperm and probably sexual frustration is a normal and healthy thing to do. When you don't that's when things get problematic. You had mentioned trying to be "good". But your body produces sperm and needs a release regardless of how you feel about it. So do what comes naturally, perhaps even up your frequency if the wet dreams are really an issue for you. Thirdly, girls don't solve everything!!! I am a happily married man, but I also am smart enough to know that life happens all day, not just a sack in bed. Don't let this misconception fool you, I had it too, getting a girl usually complicates things more than solves problems, despite the wonderfulness of being in a relationship. Bottom line, you don't want wet dreams, you have to release those puppies some other way.
2007-08-12 23:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Wonder of It all 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are masturbating, you don't have wet dreams at night, but when you stop masturbating, again it comes to you. So you should understand that it is something "out of control". You cannot control it. The only way to stop it is to find a gf or get married. That will help.
2007-08-13 06:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by mmassoudi2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately your sperm has to get out somewhere. If it not through sex or masturbation then it will come out through wet dreams. As far a being a good guy and not doing it, that is something you need to deal with in your own head. Nearly every guy does it so don't think you are the odd one out by doing it. if it makes you feel guilty then you need to not do it.
2007-08-13 09:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by darth72au 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Patience. You're lucky, most of us long for those days. I haven't had a wet dream since the early 1970s. Enjoy it while you have it. It won't last much longer.
If you can't wait, get a woman. That will fix everything. She'll either want sex and take care of your needs, or spoil any desire you might have for women. You stand a 50/50 chance, in my view.
2007-08-13 06:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by I L B C N U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
its a natural safety valve for u, a wet dream is a operation of the same so dont be afriad of it enjoy it and also there is no prob in jack off twice a week it s normal baby, dont regret for that sexy thought thats normal for human being without that zest this human race cannot exist.
2007-08-13 07:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by $SHAS# 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you're 20 you are basically full of hormones and at your "sexual peak". This is something you just have to deal with until your body slows down. There is no way to stop your "sexy thoughts" while sleeping so if you just keep letting it build up you're gonna keep waking up with a mess.
2007-08-13 06:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never stop. Wet Dreams or noctrunal emmissions are the body's natural way of releasing old semen. Even if you masturbate everyday of the week, you will never stop nature.
2007-08-13 14:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me see if mine are stopped.
i had wet dreams with 'dreams' but then dreams were no more only wetness.
well its my lack of routine but believe me.........whenever i practice yoga.........it is sure there will be no wet dreams that night well 95% it is true with me.
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2007-08-13 06:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Harsh P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a good g/f and start having sex regulary you will stop all wet dreams.
2007-08-13 06:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by vnbmuliyala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common in men who are in teens. do not bother about it. Masturbatuing twice in a week is not a bad habit
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2007-08-13 06:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋