and then to miss the person so much that you want to fly to the country and hug in real?
2007-08-12 21:20:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
its possible....but you can't really be sure its love until you actually meet and spend more time with each other....then you will know for sure if you are in love.
2007-08-12 21:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Saren Arterius 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, not really. I think it could possibly be infactuation, and a similar feeling to love, but not really sincere from inside. In that sense, perhaps an attraction.
By the way, most Yahoo! Answerers have an avatar displayed to supposedly give the other Answerer a glimpse of how he/she looks like in real life.
Now, is it accurate?....Can we be sure the person is really like that?.......Can we base our attraction towards that person on that image?.......
-Some questions which would require attention to people who still believe you can find love on Yahoo! Answerers.
HOWEVER, there is a possible theory which I would accept somebody falling in love with on Yahoo! Answers. JUST imagine a situation, which is perfectly possible where, there was a girl who was attracted to you in various ways and has an account on Yahoo! Answers.
You don`t know the girl at all but she spies on you and knows you very well. In that case, when you decided to chat with some girl, you stumbled across her profile (as she was answering the same question as you) and saw that she came from the same country as you.
Her avatar was interesting, I mean attractive. You decided to make friends with her, and go further by chatting with her. In time, you get to feel you need her more to feel emotionally secure, then what happens is that she tells you all about the first time she noticed you and all the rest of it.....
The point is, love is something which can take different paths to achieve it`s target, passing through sites, but NOT STARTING from websites.
I WOULD CALL THAT LOVE.
But to find love by simply texting is extremely naive. You don`t know that person in the first place, so you CANNOT be naive and let yourself go deeper into a hole, where you`ll probably NEVER be able to free yourself from!
2007-08-12 21:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie RZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I want you to listen up, listen well, and listen hard. You are not "in love" with this person! What you are in love with right now, right this very second, is the ideal of being in love. Your emotional attachment currently relies on nothing more then words, words that could be coming from anyone, any person, anywhere, and at any time. At present you do not truly know this person, all you know is that their writing style is so strong that it pulls at your heart strings, but so does that of a good romance novelist. All you know is that this person paints a good picture with words, but so dose a good speechwriter. All you know is that they can make you feel the way you want to feel, but so does a great movie.
The only power anyone has over you is the power that you give him or her. The only reason you feel in love is because you want to love. You want those feelings of sorrow and pain, of love and happiness, of hope, pleasure, longing, and believe that someone has these same feelings for you.
No, it’s not love its infatuation. But remember too emotional infatuation precludes emotional and physical love.
2007-08-12 21:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to have a deep relationship via Internet. You're taking a risk and putting yourself up to fall.
Really, you should try getting out more and meet some real people in your home town. It's cheaper than flying, and it's healthier.
2007-08-12 21:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you spend too much time on here. This is not for meeting people but to get answers for questions that pop up in your head. Maybe you like what they ask.. and feel you are very similar or you just think they are zany and original. But it's the infatuation of the idea of that person you think they are (not who they are really).. you don't know anything about this person really. No.. Don't fool yourself.
2007-08-12 21:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by neogiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The person you think is worth flying around the world is probably nothing like you imagine them to be.
2007-08-12 21:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just as it is possible for you to eventually live together and have kids, all within yahoo, and never once meeting each other.
Get a life.
2007-08-12 21:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldnt call it love..
to love some one yes you can just talk to each other but you also have to have physical relationship.. or at least see the person.
2007-08-12 21:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by lovinpink809 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is called Internet love that is how I met my wife and that is just what I did got on a plane and flew to the Philippines... Happy ending!!!!
2007-08-12 21:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jay & Gigi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with the idea of being in love, get out in your tangible world and meet someone attainable.
2007-08-12 21:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by winnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you've never been in a serious relationship before. I wouldn't be so quick to go awol for somebody I'd never met in person.
2007-08-12 21:28:39 · answer #11 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋