why do some black women act like they are the only ones who can be thick or even fat when actually?

Question

a lot of white women are built this way? And also, from what Ive seen most white women are thicker or fatter than most black women. Most black women are skinnier than white women these days. And are black women jealous of fat white women for some reason? It seems like it. Because they seem to always be nice to thin white women, but to thick or fat white women they are mean. And whoever said fat was a good thing? Tree trunks for arms, cottage cheese for butt and thighs, floppy breasts that will sag as you grow older, and a large waistline?
I am not being racist, i am really just wondering---it just seems like a lot of black women brag about how thick they are, and when they see a skinny white girl like me they really brag as if to show off like thyre better than me, and at the same time I wonder why would they brag about being fat? Mind you there's a difference beteween curvy and actually fat. Marilyn Monroe, Beyonce are curvy, Mo'nique and Roseanne are fat.

Answer 1

Black women have higher self esteem then white women, so they are cool with it. White women are so insecure these days.

Answer 2

size 4 aint bad... my sister is a size 3. If people are saying you need to eat ignore them. It is only because we live in america and more than half of the nation is overweight. But when you go to other countries they will be like loose more weight... especially those asian countries. Don't listen to them, apparently hating on skinny people is okay, and sympathizing with fat people is also okay when it is not. Im overweight and my mom pesters me all the time saying i will be too big to get out of the house, one day.... no im not that fat, im really curvy, got the boobs, the hips, the *** that you would see any black girl with a little fat have. Im not one of those people who say fat is beautiful.... having fat makes me uncomfortable and ugly. So don't listen to those fat obese overweight black,white, w/e girls and GUYS (especially the brothas that like high in fat girls) on how you should be like. I hate those girls that act like they love being fat but when they loose all that weight the are like "I was so miserable being fat and pathetic, and just munching on those cookies" WTF? The same girls who said they love to eat and are proud to be curvy are now saying WHAT? i cannot believe my ears. Just shut these bitches up and tell them to loose weight, just admit it fat people, being in shape makes clothes look a lot more sexier!

Answer 3

Well most black women who are curvy are not fat. A higher majority of us have natural curves while still having a small waist. While in some people of other races, if they naturally have a big butt or breasts they will also have a fat stomach to boot. I don't think that black women are jealous of fat white women, since when are women jealous of fat women, if they wanted to be fat they could just eat and not exercise anyway. I think in our society many people are rude to fat women. It is a sexist double standard in our society. When black women brag about being thick we are not talking about being fat, we are talking about a standard of beauty that we have in our community which is hour glass figures. SMALL waist, round hips/butt, round breasts. If you have the bootydo ( when your stomach sticks out more than your booty do) that is not cute.

Answer 4

Thickness has to do with thighs, hips and butt and many black women naturally store fat in these areas. I don't know what black women you are encountering to make these generalizations but I obviously don't know any of them and given the company I keep, never will. Black women are more likely to reserve fat in these areas than women of other ethnicities. Also, black men like thighs, hips and butt. Many black women who do not have a large behind wish to have one so they can be more favourably viewed by men. Some people actually consider "fat" or overweight to be thick as definitions/connotations are subject to the user. Mo'nique does not consider herself to be fat because she is a larger woman who takes care of her body and does not have the common health problems that comes with the territory. I know men that think that Beyonce' is "thick" because of her large thighs and rounder bottom and flat stomach. It is all subjective.

Think of the question," Do these pants make my butt look big?" Many white women wish to hear no while many black women wish to hear yes.

Answer 5

A lot of Black people are curvy, thick or fat. Some are thin too. Anywho FYI I havent seen black women be mean to fat white women. I think if this is true there is more to it than being fat cause thats just stupid and although some people are, most black women seem to have some type of logic behind their reasons to dislike someone. Personally most black women like all races, it just depends on certain idiots within every race.

are we clear?

Answer 6

PHENOMENAL WOMAN
by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I am a beautiful big black woman. I love me so much, that it doesn't bother me what another woman looks like. As long as she doesn't bother me. It's called self confidence, high self esteem, and pride in ones self. Jealousy is a weak emotion!!

Answer 7

All I have to say is Diva you nailed it girl..I'm white and curvy..plus I have a lot of self esteem..I love me too...it's not bragging shoot if you look good and feel good then flaunt it..big girls are just happy:)..once you fat you'll never go back...can I get a AMEN!!...And also just to add a lil education in to your life...the size of a woman sometimes shows the status of living..if you big..then your healthy have money and are livin it up.(not always but true sometimes)...girl I ain't jelious I just want to feed you..:)

Answer 8

I dont know but I would work on getting those slanted eyes fixed before I started putting anyone down.

Answer 9

black women are thick in all the right places. hips, but. we dont want to be fat and sloppy. we are thick white women are either skinny as hell or fat as hell. while some are curvy but not the way blacks are curvy

Answer 10

Well, from my observations it seems as though all the big fat white girls are with the black men. So maybe they feel the skinny white girl is no treat to them and this is why they are so nice to you.