I am absolutly in love with having sex with men, and the whole penis part...but I much more prefer the women body... does that make me a lesbian? My best friend Jill and I always experiment with eachother... I love to eat her out and we have just as much fun with girl on girl as we do with our Men... but sometimes i think i would prefer to just be with a woman...idk im confused.
2007-08-12 19:28:24 · 15 answers · asked by Mizz.Me 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
you are most likely bi. Welcome to the club. We have jackets.
its not much different from being Gay or straight, except that there are members of both groups that will see you as a "pervert" or a "traitor." No worries tho. youre in good company
: )
2007-08-12 19:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by bluestareyed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may "love men" but, what you have discovered is that you also "love to eat her out ." This though harmless (given that she's clean) is what has brought you to be "confused."
There is no benefit in defining yourself by what is enjoyed during short bursts of pleasure. In other words, why bother with putting a label on yourself.
One idea is maybe you could find a man thats down for 3somes, may be you can get away with enjoying "the best of both worlds."
2007-08-13 02:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by jerome2all 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You may be a bi-sexual, I am not ready to diagnose you with clinical bi-sexuality yet.
Women are generally triggered to have sexual desires by their emotions, while men are visual creatures. There is no mistaking that you find pleasure in your friend, but your confusion may stem from the fact that women develop deeply emotional friendships. And if your friend is satisfying you sexually and emotionally, where your current partner may be a bit distant or out of touch with your feelings and only sexually satisfying on occasion you may be experiencing fulfillment that you only felt at the beginning of your heterosexual relationship.
I will not allow you to give up on male female relationships. There is none that holds tighter or reassures stronger than a loving man's arms.
2007-08-16 19:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by pure conscience 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You never know... besides, you could just be going through a phase right now. And what you said is true, you are probably very confused. So I wouldn't really worry too much about how you're feeling sexually right now because it's most likely going to pass and if it doesn't, that's okay too. Whatever makes you happy and turns you on :)
2007-08-13 07:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by LeBenze 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Listen honey, you don't have to label yourself. However, if you like both men and women, then it seems as though you are bi-sexual. Do what feels right for you.
2007-08-15 06:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just Bi, but it sure sounds like you're a lesbian. Do whatever you want. I'm not gonna stop you from enjoying yourself!
2007-08-13 02:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Redeemer 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think you are a guy trying to say you are a girl.. after your last question about breastfeeding and now this.. shut your piehole
2007-08-14 02:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Karla 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Lesbians are usually only attracted to other woman.
2007-08-13 07:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
it sounds like youre bisexual.
2007-08-13 11:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by lazy shoe 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are not a lesbian...you are bisexual...
2007-08-14 00:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by gannoway 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋