How do u see this: I'm used to being alone and not hang with other students in school, is it wrong ?

Question

I sit somewhere and have my coffee alone and some people sometimes have strange looks at me. But I like being alone, its more relaxing and I can think better this way. Another thing, I don't have much to say to people, I'm not talkative and really don't know what to say. The words just don't come out ! Sometimes people repeat something over and over but I don't have that habit. How do you carry out conversations ?

Answer 1

your an intrevert(sp?), thats how i am, no its not wrong, you just like to be more thoughtful, you shouldnt have to force yourself to talk to someone, you will find people that are easy to talk to and some that arent, dont beat yourself up on it or else you will drive your self crazy, figuritively speaking and/or literally, just try to be relaxed which you know how to do, just be relaxed when your around people, dont put yourself in situations that force you to talk if you dont want to, if you want to talk to someone, just do it, dont think about it, you shouldnt have to plan on what to say, if you do it will be awkward because you cant predict how the other person will react to you

Answer 2

Nope nothing wrong with that. I am a very quiet person, and I really don't have any friends at the University I attend.
I wouldn't be concerned with those strange looks, just smile at them and go about your business.
As far as conversation goes, I listen to what the other person is saying and then I speak, then they speak then I speak, and so on, but don't forget to listen!

Answer 3

my mornings in school are all me, sometimes i just sit in my car instead of going in when i get there, sometimes ill wnat to talk, but i find talking to the average highschool student degrading,it always is about sex or drugs or parties, i like to saty away from that, or sometimes i just walk around, sometimes peopel will come up and walk with me, sometimes well ahve an intelligent conversation, sometimies ill ignore tehm

Answer 4

I don't think it's wrong. You don't ALWAYS have to be with people and hang out with freinds,if you are happy to be alone that's fine! That is kind of the way I am sometimes.

Answer 5

There isn't anything wrong with enjoying solitude. Just talk when you feel comfortable talking, be yourself.

Answer 6

Not at all wrong. It shows that you think for yourself.