well the last time i believe other closeted gay guys have tried flurting with me was in the 9th grade now im going to be in the 12th grade...i would like too be flurt at and kinda flurt back without anyone knowing just the person im doing it with and well....yeah what are signs the person might be gay....oh one more thing since i love art im taking art class....do you think maybe their might be some closeted gay guys...
2007-08-12 19:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This doesn't sound like concern about being ostracized for being gay and in high school. It sounds like you are asking for dating tips. It's a misleading statement that you start with.
2007-08-12 19:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mnay guys go through the same thing even straight ones. If it were me I would take it slow, do nothing in school but see if you can become friends first and then when alone test the waters. Ask if they have a gf or something ask if they ever thought about dating guys but do it alone away from school. if you pick the wrong guy it could cause you problems in school if you wish to stay closeted. Being gay is not the end of the world and to the person who said its a sin. God loves all his creations. Its only a sin in the translation some churches have shoved down our throats. My dad was a minister and I have a gay son. The bible has become one of the world's worst chain phone calls over the many years and different interpertations of what was orginally written. How is it you can ask 10 church leaders and get 10 different answers on many things. My don't catholic priests marry and others do? Maybe they are all gay?? Some churches say the "grape juice" mean wine some say it means pure grape juice not wine.. whos right? were any of the "experts" there? To me There are many worse sins then being gay. Don't get me started. I just read the news from Iraq every day.
2007-08-12 19:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by asccaracer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is if the girls are that crazy for you, the guys will be too! You'll just have to wait a couple of years. The chances are slim of meeting someone your own age right now. The thing that sucks about coming out when you're so young is that most other people wait until they're at least in college, so you're in the minority (even among gay people). The most that you could can do is try to meet other guys your age online (but in a platonic of course). Just enjoy your friends and look forward to when you're older.
2016-05-21 04:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like a guy just try to get to know him, he may hint his sexuality to you. As said over and over again, there is no sure way to tell. Although stereotypes can "sometimes" be true, its also often the opposite. Also, I love taking art, but a lot of straight people go too, so its also not an indication that if a guy takes art classes he is gay, even though I am,.But who knows, keep your eyes open. :)
2007-08-12 19:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I'm sure there are at least a handful of closested gay and bi dudes in your school, and they are just as likely to be on the football team or in the calculus club as in art class. I was a theatre person all those years ago....being a teenager is tough. Gays are in every group and interest, profession, etc. its is going to take some time to figure things out, and hook up. I'm 41 years odl, adn I STILL have sex issues! Its called "Being a man".
best of luck! have a great time!
2007-08-12 19:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Roger B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you wont be able to know if they are gay because they are closeted. Why don't you come out, I'm sure things will be a lot easier for you to find guys. I have a gay friend who doesn't mind flirting even if the guy is straight! Otherwise you can just look at your classmates myspace pages to find your gay guys...
2007-08-12 19:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by PlainJane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an horrible misconception that artistic men are gay. If you're really interested in finding other gay teens at your school, try joining (or organising if your school does not have) the LGBT (Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender) student union.
2007-08-12 19:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know but I had alot of gay guy friends in school but most of them were in the drama class goodluck(^_^)
2007-08-12 20:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, go for someone you know is gay / bi?
2007-08-12 19:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your in the closet and you want to hide because you feel guilty. Homosexuality is a sin.
2007-08-12 19:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 10⤋